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How to Flirt: The Art of Playful Teasing.

camerondare

August 30, 2012

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http://kingpinlifestyle.com/how-to-flirt-the-art-of-playful-teasing/

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Title	How to Flirt: The Art of Playful Teasing.
Author	camerondare
Upvotes	124
Comments	22
Date	August 30, 2012 4:40 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/z31nb/how_to_flirt_the_art_of_playful_teasing/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/how-to-flirt-the-art-of-playful-teasing.1338264 https://theredarchive.com/post/1338264

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Seduction isn't exclusive to "pick-up artists". Seduction is the act of seducing, and happens in many different areas, including on dates. Unless I'm mistaken, I'm positive a major aspect many of the guys who read seddit struggle with is simply how to flirt. Many of them fall into the 4 categories Matt talks about in the post.

TD and Mystery have some good advice for sure, but I definitely don't think they are the only sources out there who know what's up. I'm not convinced TD or Mystery are exactly the types of role models many guys who get into "the game" are actually looking for. I've been in the game for 5 years and for 3 years of it I went out every single night. I've been out over 1000 nights alone studying the work of TD and Mystery. I can't say I was much happier by the end of it. In fact, I was probably less happy. It sure wasn't from a lack of success either. I've had the one night stands, threesomes, orgys, 30 minute pulls from the club. I've experienced the wide spectrum of "pick-up" and have learned seduction doesn't just fall into the style TD and Mystery teach. There are other ways of going about things that get you the results you're looking for. From my experience meeting over 2000+ guys in "pick-up", I've learned a seriously high percentage of them really just want to have a CHOICE in the girlfriend they end up with - they don't want to have to settle for whatever they can get. It's only once they get into pick-up and start reading and following guys like TD and Mystery that they change their goals to fuck every girl with 2 legs and a vagina. Then, they sit at home reading more, paralyzed by the thought that they are going to go out and pursue that type of goal. They may not be conscious about it but the reason they don't go out isn't because they are lazy or don't want it bad enough - it's because they don't actually WANT the goal they were guided to set. The goal is completely incongruent. To their guy friends and "wingmen" they will boast about how awesome it would be, but when they go to sleep at night they sure aren't very motivated by it.

Anyways, just my two cents. Thanks for your comment.

I definitely agree with the feedback people have posted and appreciate it. If you're one of the guys who is past this point in their game, I'm happy for you. Maybe an intermediate/advanced subreddit is needed I'm not sure.

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