Seddit has everything from opening to closing, but we seem to overlook a critical aspect of it all, how to be good in the bedroom.

Confidence in the bedroom is a huge component of confidence when going out and the ability to be successful at establishing a relationship, and then maintaining one. So I will offer some pointers on how to improve and please add anything that seems poignant!

  1. Don't be afraid to ask what they like - Maybe this is intuitive for some men but it wasn't for me at first so I assume a lot of men might suffer with this problem. I think the logic that we have is, "it seems like something an amateur would do and I don't want her to think I'm an amateur." The problem is, even if you aren't an amateur, each woman is unique in the bedroom and each get turned on by different things. Some girls only can orgasm through oral. One girl literally wanted me to choke her hard, and then asked me to punch her (first and last time with her) a lot of girls tell me that most men never satisfy them. Don't be that guy.

  2. Tell the girl why they turn you on - And act on it. A huge part of a woman's level of intimacy and sexual arousal comes from their own bodies and how men react to them. There are a ton of ways to play this out. My favorite is to leave a girls bra/shirt on during sex, and then half-way through busting them out and letting her know how much they turn me on.

  3. Build sexual tension - Flirt, flirt, flirt, bust out the sexual innuendo, devious smirks, put it into her head that you can't wait to fuck her, and then postpone it. This process should continue even during foreplay. My mindset is similar to how you get people to feel like they are being tickled before it even happens. Make them think it's about to be licked; talk dirty to it, breath on it; kiss around it, then moan about how bad you want it. I've had girls squirming before I have even done one thing yet.

I know there is a ton more stuff, lets get some ideas rolling