Did girls notice you or take interest in you before you "upped your game" ?

sunn_ · 2012-09-07T23:23:26+00:00

What you believe; you perceive.

What you want to see; you will find it.

If for a few days you deluded yourself into thinking everywhere you go you are Casanova you might be surprised at how your subtle body language changes and also in what you perceive and pick up on in female's subtle body language changes when you walk into a room. If you are always concerned about yourself, you are so self centered that you will never pick up on these things. Get out of your head.

fr33runner · 2012-09-08T03:29:24+00:00

Before I became comfortable talking to the opposite sex I already had an idea I was not bad looking as I would have confirmation from females but my major problem was I was extremely shy among girls and people in general. Once I decided I didn't want to die a virgin things changed as I made an effort to put myself out there. It wasn't an easy process that saw results immediately but once I got the ball rolling good things happened. When you go out to try to talk to girls you are interested in you won't have any confirmation most of the time, you have to chance it every time.

Memitim901 · 2012-09-07T23:22:37+00:00

on your approaches, always assume they are attracted to you. If they turn you down who cares, onto the next girl.

tyty333 · 2012-09-07T23:21:16+00:00

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EJSpurrell · 2012-09-08T11:13:48+00:00

I've noticed that in my quest to give no fucks, I've had a complete change in the attention cast upon me by the female half of the species. A year ago, I'd have been ecstatic. Now I give no fucks about it, which seems to drive 'em nuts. Literally. I had at least one stalker in the past couple of months.

documents1856 · 2012-09-08T07:20:20+00:00

There are always girls interested. I played it safe in high school and first few years of college, I never showed interest until it was shown to me, I feared rejection. The first time I made a move, all I could think was "Fuck it" and kissed her, and it worked. That was in my second year of college, catching up with one of the most attractive girls I went to high school with. After that I realized even though I played it safe, every girl who I asked for her number has given it to me, every girl I asked out on a date accepted with a smile. I didn't know what rejection felt like, why do I fear it? I asked more girls, got more numbers, got more dates, and when a girl flakes it doesn't phase me. She's just one girl out of many who said yes, and don't dwell on her, there are far more important things to occupy yourself with.

Title	Did girls notice you or take interest in you before you "upped your game" ?
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Comments	9
Date	September 7, 2012 10:50 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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