Do you guys worry about rotating outfits in front of prospective girls

Gandaldeen · 2012-09-26T04:14:57+00:00

As a girl I can tell you that I do notice what a guy is wearing if I am into him. Obviously I won't care if a guy wears the same clothes since I'd just assume it was an accident or he isn't thinking about it that much (especially if you only see her twice a week for class, a girl would be understanding).

But I will say that what a guy is wearing is a big deal to me. If they care about how they look and their own hygiene, I will find it attractive, and I know a lot of other girls that are influenced by this as well

2012-09-26T04:11:21+00:00

Just think of it this way, can you even remember what they wore last time? Probably not unless your'e a fuckin' detective. They most likely won't recall but never hurts to switch it up.

atomedge · 2012-09-26T04:12:00+00:00

It doesn't matter. I wear the same style all the time, same clothes often. I have a set style I abide by in my dress. It's unique, and when I go to my regular places, women recognize me, and it makes approachability that much easier as I'm a familiar entity. I only change it up when I want to get some kind of extra attention that is obtained through dressing differently than usual. It works well.

_GameOn_ · 2012-09-26T11:24:18+00:00

I probably wouldn't use the same outfit consecutively, e.g. the second session/class or whatever. But if you only see her once or twice a week, then it's no stress having a new outfit ready for the next meeting.

leodoestheopposite · 2012-09-27T00:29:50+00:00

I am a guy, I DGAF about rotating my wardrobe for social reason.

That's what women do.

Dahka · 2012-09-26T04:21:20+00:00

I don't actively think about it, but I do tend to try to change up what I wear. I don't have Mon/Tue/Wed/Thur/Fri outfit, I kind of have a couple sets of pants and twice as many shirts and I mix and match as I see fit when I'm clothing myself in the AM.

If I know for a fact that I'll be around a prospect I'm particularly interested in, I'll probably wear whatever's nicest that I have clean and matching well. The decision takes about 30 seconds longer than it normally would. I don't usually think back to what I wore around her last.

justthrowmeout · 2012-09-26T04:23:02+00:00

If u wear the same thing two Wednesdays in a row no biggie. If you wear it every time yeah that's gonna stick out.

paulgualtieri · 2012-09-26T05:57:57+00:00

Makes no difference.

dking168 · 2012-09-26T15:19:41+00:00

I ususally wear the same clothes.

I have 3 sweaters that I wear on a rotation and then the collared chode Polos underneath the sweater are different colors all the time. It's a small but subtle change. Whether it helps I have no idea, but deep down you shouldn't care.

Pants wise, I bought a pair of raw denim jeans + same shoes so those are pretty much the same everyday since I need to break in the jeans + I can't afford to get a shitload of different shoes.

Good fashion is expensive unfortunately and you can't always afford to have a different bunch of clothes everyday.

2012-09-26T18:22:36+00:00

You should make a challenge out of mixing up nice outfits. If a girl or several girls are only somewhat interested in you they still will pay attention to what you wear. So if you constantly dish out different looks they'll get impressed. If "your" girl doesn't notice it, someone else surely will. According to my experiences, at least.

It's also about moving out of your comfort zone with mixing shit up/challenging yourself. Think about what only wearing two different outfits says about you as a person.

Even if girls don't pay attention to me I like to imagine they do, and challenge myself to subtly impress/surprise them either way. (I don't change outfits 5 times a week though, closer to 2/3). Basically I don't see how mixing it up can hurt-- yes, this is my conclusion.

2012-09-26T04:04:19+00:00

Honestly unless you're making long, drawn out conversation, I doubt most of them will even remember what you wore last time. Obviously don't wear the same thing every time, but overall it doesn't really matter

Title	Do you guys worry about rotating outfits in front of prospective girls
Author	IIMsmartII
Upvotes	3
Comments	12
Date	September 26, 2012 3:56 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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