I have recently discovered I serious problem in my approaches and first-contact with girls.

this is obviously linked to inexperience and not being natural in game yet.

the problem is that I focus WAY too much on myself when talking to a girl that listening to what she has to say sometimes appears difficult and I don't even register certain info.

what that sometimes leads to is "double"-questions or holes in progression of game.

I know that this is only a problem because I make it a problem and that my game should be independent from her reaction. if a double-question occurs I usually try to playfully dismiss it and call her "not interesting enough yet", teasingly of course, however I do want to be able to register EVERYTHING she says and STILL be independent in progression.

anybody knows what I am talking bout?