Getting alot of girls numbers but yet getting nowhere!

ObiWan111 · 2012-10-17T02:08:59+00:00

You aren't building enough attraction during the initial meeting or you're texting/calling without the purpose being a date setup.

dave-gonzo · 2012-10-17T18:39:59+00:00

The fuck are you talking about? Before you started doing this you were getting 0 #'s. now your getting TONS of #'s. thats fucking progress like a motherfucker. Be proud of that. Seriously. Be really proud of that.

2012-10-17T14:44:41+00:00

If your goal is to get #s, you are being successful.

If you believe that getting a # is a MUST in order to get into higher level with a girl.... how's that working for you?

Seduction is a about creating attraction, if you are doing it right, she'll be attracted to you; and you will be able to escalate flirting & kino from "Hello" & High Five, to ... doing naked cardio exercises at your place (or hers)... and getting a ~~phone number~~ way to stay in touch for the next step occurs naturally.

sloshslapper · 2012-10-17T15:07:29+00:00

So help me God... if one more person uses "but yet," I'm going postal. One or the other dude.

This is actually related to your question. Don't over do things. If you put too much into your pickup she will be repulsed by your eagerness. I can tell by the fact that you used both of those words that you wanted to sound a certain way in this post. You can't WANT to come off a certain way. You have to come off exactly the way you come off, and if that ruffles feathers then FUCK those feathers. You didn't want any of that anyway.

That is a lie. Of course you wanted those feather, but the feather are only going to want you if you know you are good enough to not need any of those feathers. Especially when feathers are easily ruffled. Man, if feathers get ruffled about the way you are, then tease the feathers for being so easy to ruffle.

As a final note, never ever use "but yet" again. Practice speaking in a way that confers gravitas... like using the word gravitas, and not caring if the person you are speaking to knows what it means. It's not about them. It's about you. If you are at your best, they will love you.

and that's all i really have to say about that.

puaCurveBall · 2012-10-17T15:51:40+00:00

Might this apply?

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/kcedb/a_common_blindspot_to_success/

2012-10-17T18:52:30+00:00

These 5 things apply every time you get flaked/rejected:

You probably didn't build enough attraction.
She only gets one vote on the matter of you. (One girl, one vote.)
Who cares what she thinks? You don't need her validation anyways.
You're the most important person in the exchange.
They're just girls.

Title	Getting alot of girls numbers but yet getting nowhere!
Author	jamrock100
Upvotes	1
Comments	19
Date	October 17, 2012 2:05 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/11lubg/getting_alot_of_girls_numbers_but_yet_getting/
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