I'll try my best to involve the seddit terminology, but I tend to prefer when the FR is just a easy-to-read explanation light with abbreviations and such.

So was invited to a party a couple weeks ago by a friend (a girl) who lives in a flat with 3 other girls. They all have boyfriends, but are quite pretty so it's safe to assume they're friends are attractive.

So I rock up relatively earlier since the girl I know wanted to use my speakers for the party. She's going on to her friends during the day about how I've been helpful with setting up and so forth (indirect DHV). I drive to hers with my brother's car (which is nice) and ask one of her friends I don't know from before (and assume is single) to help me carry some of the booze up the stairs along with the speakers. And that's another thing, introduce yourself to everyone you don't know at the party as soon as you get there....the longer you leave it, the weirder it becomes when you want to chat up that one HB9. A small hi would suffice.

So she sees the car and doesn't say anything but you can see she's impressed along with the heinous amount of booze I brought. I was once told that the guy who boasts the least, has the most. You've got to show them indirectly and let them draw their own conclusions about what you're all about rather than going on about how you play varsity football or whatever. TBH I really don't think flashing your car or watch or cash is realted to pick up, it's mostly about your confidence, but you want to show that you've got the whole package. This applies to people in general, not just girls.

Now another piece of advice; if you're going to a party....take tequila. It will make you the main man. You can do slammers with girls as well as mix some great cocktails (ones that chicks drink more readily). You can do some fun things with the salt and limes the night goes on (lick salt off each others cheeks etc haha).

So the drinks are flowing, having a good time. Already grabbed a couple number closes. My tip here is to just make it as casual as possible i.e. 'oh you go to that sandwich bar too? give me your number, we'll grab a bit together next time I'm about to hit it' or something to that effect

Now here's my main tip to add here. After I saw 'Skyfall' and how much of a boss Bond is, I just thought about applying the technique of 'what would James Bond do?' to every situation imaginable. ANYTHING. It's been working out so far quite nicely. Do you think Bond would care if some girl didn't text him back? Or if he didn't k-close one night? He doesn't give a fuck.....why should he? Even in talking to people in general, he listens intently and doesn't spit out replies just because. He speaks slowly and with confidence and ALWAYS have something of worth while to say. I'm not saying you should go crazy with it, but I've found that anytime something hasn't come off or don't know how I should proceed with a girl I just think of this. Don't get me wrong....he makes dirty jokes too. I'm bringing this up because I used this on the night of the party with amazing success:

So I'm chilling in the kitchen and there's too HB8.5s standing across with their back towards the counter just talking. I notice behind them that there is a box on it's side on the counter with a couple of beer bottles in them that are about to roll out and fall on the floor by the girls' legs. I quickly walk across and catch them just before the bottles fall and hand them to the girls saying 'Put these somewhere else, we wouldn't want you girls getting wet now, would we?' and being in that mindset I just added....'at least not from the beer' and I winked and walked away. One of the girls ended up coming up to me about 3 minutes later and we did a shot and that led to an f-close that night.

Obviously, it's hard to have a great line for all situations but because I had been training myself in the mindset for about 2 weeks it just came to me. It might work for you too!

So there it is, hope these tips help, or at least give you some kind of direction in things to work on.

EDIT: damn the post started off with a lot of negativity. Just chill out guys, it's just one technique that worked well for one guy. If you don't like it then fine, but no need to stress yourself out about it on the internet. There's just not enough hours in the day for that. And as most people said, it's 'how' you say it, not 'what'.