What do I reply to "we'll see" after I go for the close over text?

PuempelsPurpose · 2012-11-19T06:00:56+00:00

I wouldn't respond, but I would also pretty much give up on a girl who says "We'll see"... for me, that gives me perfect reason to write her off as a woman who I'd be interested in and a woman who is sufficiently interested in me.

CollegeTownPUA · 2012-11-19T05:20:49+00:00

Ignore her and make other plans. Also, never ask her our in the form of a question. Make it a statement. Example: "Let's go out Wednesday at 8. I can pick you up at X time. (alternatively, "I'll meet you at X place at X time.").

I mean, if you really want to push it with this girl, maybe say something like "Actually, my time is valuable. If you don't want to go, I can make other plans..."

Personally, I find it rude of her to say "we'll see." She should say either yes or no, rather than leave you dangling as an option. But really it's probably just that she can't bring herself to tell you no. Which says to me that you haven't done a good enough job building attraction before asking her out. But reeeeaaallly the best advice I can give you is to, in the future, not ask girls out but rather tell them to meet you somewhere. This forces them to give a yes or a no.

ffcsin · 2012-11-19T17:18:52+00:00

You respond by deleting her number. Or respond with "no we won't". You don't need her bs.

2012-11-19T07:26:31+00:00

Like some have said, just pursue other interests. Or if you want to keep it going with this girl, you have to call her out on this. Something like "Oooh, I bet you think you're being quite the cool-kid being purposely vague. : P"

lavadru · 2012-11-19T21:17:02+00:00

I basically said that was the only night i had available so let me know soon, but made sure it was implied she was working around my schedule, not the other way around, then let her know I was done for the night. She then asked me another about where i lived which i responded to, but again made it clear I had to go. I got a positive response to which I ignored. I'll wait for her to get back to me now, but it looks promising.

ozzy91 · 2012-11-20T04:11:44+00:00

Her: "We'll see". You: "Ya I might have to delay actually..I've got a cookie thing before. Ill let you know". Just a thought..doesn't have to be cookie but just something trivial and random that lowers her because you would rather do that than see her.

maestroni · 2012-11-19T13:02:08+00:00

Just text "is that a yes or a no?". That's what you want to know so ask it.

Stephen-Stills · 2012-11-19T05:31:47+00:00

Wait... by "the close" do you mean you asked her to have sex over text?! Please tell me that's not what you mean!

Title	What do I reply to "we'll see" after I go for the close over text?
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Date	November 19, 2012 5:07 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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