Greetings. I wanted to share my story about this. To some if not most here, this whole gaming, techniques and bunch of advice isn't only to get girls to like you or into your bed, but also to become a better person. More confident, open, social, whatever you're striking for. Self-improvement at its finest.

So you managed to step up to your AA and got that girl's number? Great. Got a date? Even better. Made her your girlfriend? Wow, couldn't have done it better, right? Right, but here it comes. Do not settle down, think you've done your part and everything is butterflies from now on.

Over a year ago, I was your average AFC. I don't have to draw it to you, but I was bad. One day I was sitting next to this girl in this lesson we had together, and it all snapped in my head. I wanted her. I wasn't going to let her go away like I did with all the past ones. I decided to step up to my AA and went on reddit to get some advice, and found out about seddit. I posted this. It's kind of funny to look back on it now.

One approach, one success. I got her number, I got her to hang out with me. I read and read seddit, late into the night, and practised my game on her. Turns out she had a boyfriend, shit I told myself at first. Fuck it I told myself at second. I didn't give two fucks, didn't develop oneitis and went on with my awesome life. Thing is, when I talked to her about other girls, she would get kind of jealous. I noticed her flirting with me every now and then aswell. I was at loss here, this couldn't be, she had a boyfriend! Turns out he was an ass. Two months later, after more gaming and more developing, I went for it and we kissed. Out of the friendzone. It worked. My mind was blown. She dumped him that night. Boom, there we go and off we went to have an awesome relationship. Over the next weeks and months she told me she's never been happier before, and all the romantic things that you can think of. It was awesome, until I sank in a depression because of my insecurities and low self-esteem.

Here's why: as soon as I got in this relationship, I stopped reading this subreddit. At the time I figured "what the fuck am I still doing here?", because well, my techniques worked and I had that girl with long-term potential. I wasn't looking for anything else so why keep on with the game? And that's when all my AFC shit crawled back up at me. I got jealous, I got insecure, I was a wreck. I was, as I like to call it, a little beta bitch. I often would break up in tears over insignificant shit, because I was making such a big deal out of everything. I wasn't secure about my actions and my decisions. I almost lost her because of this. We've talked things through, and she clearly told me that she was thinking of breaking up because of how I turned out. I read seddit again since two weeks and feel better than ever.

But I'm not here to rant about my relationship.

Guys. Even if you're just looking to get one girl and are not into gaming every Friday night, you've got to keep it on, especially if you were an AFC before. Don't be afraid to pull tricks on your girlfriend. If she thinks you're weird, then she's not for you. Approach just for the sake of meeting people and being friends! Be cool, be awesome, be confident and never take her for granted. Make sure you don't do the same mistake as me and think that you're good now and don't have to game anymore, because you will lose here if you get back to being an AFC. Here's a good guide about it by the way.

EDIT I highly suggest you read the top comment just below, especially the last two paragraphs. It's perhaps more accurate than this.