I Need A Definitive Guide to the Art of the Makeout

WorstOfThem · 2012-11-27T16:53:21+00:00

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ThrowawayPUA · 2012-11-27T17:34:15+00:00

Look online for the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder. I always thought it was pretty funny how it describes each step in a makeout, but some guys really need these steps. They don't know when to touch her breasts or put their hand under her shirt.

Murmaider · 2012-11-27T19:30:50+00:00

Start with your lips relaxed, or just slightly puckered. You aren't kissing a relative where you do that "MUA" thing with your lips looking like you're about to blow out a candle.
My personal preference is heads tilted to the left, my lower lip between dude's lips, his upper lip between my lips. (I'm a chick, btw.)
Just . . . do to her what feels good to you. That is to say, if she does something you like, do it back to her. Do to her what you want her to do to you.
Run your tongue over her lip before you put it in her mouth.
DO NOT IMMEDIATELY SHOVE AS MUCH OF YOUR TONGUE AS YOU CAN IN HER MOUTH.
Explore.
Let her put her tongue in your mouth too. The best kisses are when both people have the coordination to pull this off at the same time.
Remember to stop for breath and spit-control. (You will start salivating. This is normal.)
It's really hot when someone briefly pulls back from a kiss, gives you a really honest smile, and then goes back to kissing you. Just lets the other person know how much you're enjoying it.

Credit to SpermJackalope who posted this 6 months ago. I also suggest reading DiCarlo's Escalation Ladder.

2012-11-27T13:00:40+00:00

if it helps when a movie or show is on I can get very easily distracted from anything sexual

however general kissing tips are try and be the one who pulls out first at least some of the times, also tease a bit, go in then pull out at the last minute, that's always fun.

as for the actual kissing you don't have to use too much tongue, I prefer to use more lips. also start slowly then get steadily get full on and use more tongue. you can use your lips as teeth to 'bite' and drag on her lips, and then go on to use your actual teeth (but not too hard obviously, although one time a girl told me I was doing it too hard, then she started biting on my lip really hard and by the time we stopped I think we both had some slightly sore lips, but in a good way...). also kissing doesn't end on the lips, kiss and bite on the neck just below the ear. even kiss in the ear if you want to, girls have don it to me but I've never really done it.

hands are also very important, press on places like the nape and just below the breasts as they are pressure points (google eroginous zones, spelling btw). beyond that to make things more intense tighten your embrace and move your hand up and down the girls body. you'll notice the tighter you hold her, the tighter she'll hold you, this is also true for dancing.

also pay attention to what her hands are doing, if she's properly using them put your hands where she puts her hands on your body, or at least make sure the places you alternate where you put your hands. If she isn't using her hands, place her hands on your arse or under your shirt onto your abs/stomach/side (you don't have to have a six pack to do it).

I think that's roughly about it, but mostly you have to enjoy it. I've only gotten really good at it coz I pay attention to what the girl does and because I love a good kiss.

sorry if it's too full on, if it is don't try doing it all at once or you'll freak someone out of you do all this too fast. believe me I know... just get the kissing right then make sure your hands are busy and so on and so forth

2012-11-27T15:56:57+00:00

The comment by blakrimson on kissing is brilliant so I want to comment on your general game instead because while reading it looked a little sketchy.

"I suggested we make out for a little", WTF? You can do this if you're being cocky but this seems a little weird to verbally suggest making out while watching a film. You should be able to do this with mainly just eye contact and kino.

"I really like this girl and am honestly willing to take things slow". Be careful. Firstly don't get too attached to this one girl. There is good chance it won't work out and if you get too attached it will hurt like fuck. Secondly if there is no sexual interaction above cuddling she could get turned off, you might even slip into the friend zone. You need to keep her hot for you. With some girls it's harder but I find getting shot down often is better than doing nothing when sexually escalating. Maybe tease her a bit, when she pulls away from a kiss ask, "is that all you've got"?

Basically from my interpretation you sound like you're trying to be the nice guy who's happy to let her decide the pace of the relationship. Obviously listen to her but you're the guy here. Try to be dominant and firm in want you want, it may seem weird at first if you're quite a passive guy but girls like it when a guy who knows want he wants and isn't afraid to go for it.

Luck.

Untraced · 2012-11-27T19:46:36+00:00

Don't read anything else about making out. What's posted in the comments & DiCarlo's ladder are MORE than enough. Now you have to go out and make out with a bunch of girls. Pay attention to them, pay attention to what they like and don't like. THEN you'll be a better kisser. The only way to get better at kissing, sex, and social situations in general is by practicing them.

Your first few times kissing a girl are going to be awful. If she's a better kisser than you, she'll guide you along. If you're enjoying what she's doing, let her take over and follow it.

achoj · 2012-11-28T00:56:04+00:00

Practice makes perfect

2012-11-28T05:00:24+00:00

The best compliment ive ever gotten about making out was that it felt so effortless. React to her body and her lips. Do what feels natural. Be sensitive to how she feels. Dont be afraid to take charge, but like a handshake or a hug or any other physical gesture, whether or not they're prepared can be the difference between a good move and a bad one. Dont bullrush anything, but kiss her like you actually mean it. If you feel nervous, awkward, unsure, that comes through 100%

CJ090 · 2012-11-28T05:17:53+00:00

Here's my method and I'm told I'm a damn good kisser; not my words.

Start with both your heads straight and a small but firm peck, easy.
Slowly begin tilting your head and introducing A LITTLE BIT of tounge in kind of a licking motion but doing it as your lips are about to purse together for a lip smack.
Repeat

If you really want to heat it up you have to move from the mouth to her body. I've found most girls to melt when you kiss their neck and even more so their nipple. After working the mouth for a bit slowly make your way to the neck (mouth to cheek cheek to neck) kiss around the side of her neck and the color bone. If your are doing all this right and you warm her up, play with a nipple for a bit until they are hot and bothered enough for you to pull one out and start teasing her nipple. Then ????. Then profit and fuck bitches

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lupinib · 2012-12-06T06:14:18+00:00

But...your name is makeoutking?

Title	I Need A Definitive Guide to the Art of the Makeout
Author	makeoutking
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Date	November 27, 2012 12:04 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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