Clubbing solo. Any tips?

HighGoGetter · 2012-12-09T06:06:19+00:00

Talk to everyone; People on line trying to get into the club. the bouncers, once u get in it's go time. As the clock ticks the Girl:Guy ratio gets worse and worse. Don't let rejection get to you, just keep it moving. Try everything, don't think just do.

MyThrowawaySeddit · 2012-12-09T05:43:56+00:00

Creep. Hard.

Piscenian · 2012-12-09T06:24:47+00:00

Yea I agree with highgogetter, and...you do havr to be a go better, talk to everyone, work on noticing your surrounds, point that out to them and slide into convoy, do this to several people to build up confidence and loosen up. Be happy, be approachable, dance, dance by your self...if your good at it. Be smooth, you don't know these people. Doesn't matter if you embarrass your self.

_saint · 2012-12-09T12:09:48+00:00

I rather like this guy's strategy:

http://www.rooshv.com/going-out-alone

The two openers I like to use on random girls when I'm all alone at the club are "Hey, you don't look like your from here" and "Hey, you look like you're having the most fun here". Both stolen from Roosh as well, but they work.

Sveske · 2012-12-09T22:06:34+00:00

There's no need to go all extreme on your first time going solo.. My best advice would be to CHILL. Start out with the single goal of being comfortable while alone in the club. A big part of going out alone is to be comfortable in a situation where you have no one to back you up. Suddenly youll realize that no one is looking at you thinking: "who's the weird friendless guy". Youre just a guy enjoying a night out by yourself.. And remember that you can always go to anorher venue. Just chip away at it, and allow your mindset to adapt

2012-12-09T14:18:34+00:00

At a club most game is nonverbal, so just approach girls from the FRONT and start dancing with them. Grab a hand, spin them, whatever.

Only real chances to talk in a club are waiting for drinks at bar, smoking section if applicable, and bathroom lines.

2012-12-09T17:40:05+00:00

be comfortable in your own skin. people you speak to will say shit like "I could never go out by myself" and hopefully youll be like "it's not a big deal, you should try it" I do go out by myself, it's not a big deal, and sometimes it can be a lot of fun

magicroot75 · 2012-12-09T16:20:30+00:00

Face-to-face on the dancefloor, lay your hand out before them. If they accept and let you spin them, you're golden. If they don't take your hand, insist ONCE more. If she turns down the second time, it's not worth it.

Title	Clubbing solo. Any tips?
Author	shuritsen
Upvotes	23
Comments	13
Date	December 9, 2012 5:23 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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