As you can read for my FR last night here http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/15n7tk/fr_sarged_on_friday_night_close_got_my_car_towed/ I had a somewhat decent Friday night sarging, that unfortunately happened to have my car towed. I learned to never OVER STAY YOUR WELCOME. I will explain later.

Before I go on about my story, here are the summary of my advice for club games:

  1. Talk to Anyone when you first get to a club.
  2. Recruit wingmen if you are solo
  3. Engage whole group when you first approach, then divide and conquer later.
  4. Don't over stay your welcome. Dance and have fun with the girls, and get'em digits!
  5. Don't drink too much

So here comes another solo new year Saturday night. I went to a meet up earlier in the day to kill time. Met some cool folks, got a number from HB5.5 (wasn't really trying). And bounced. Since I'm not really working on my meet up game, I will keep my analysis brief: when you go to meet ups, most of the guys there are not PUAs, and most of them are unfortunately socially awkward. Simply being in that environment will make you feel like an alpha. But always conduct yourself in the most respectful way, while keeping it flirtatious, fun and unneedy. You will stand out to the ladies VERY easily.

Anyway, there was another Meetup later in the night at a popular night club. Went in there solo, straight to the bar. While I had barely started taking a deep breath trying to at adjusted to the atmosphere, the HB5 next to me opened me. We went on making jokes about each other's name. Note that this is a really good strategy, as it establish rapport almost instantly. At this point like 30 seconds into the conversation I already had my arm around her. No protest there from her. Then we proceeded to a couch, talked a little bit and made out. Through the conversation, my hand was all over her back, waist, butt and legs. When you get to this level, fellas, go for the make out. The girl is literally asking for it. Now I am not particularly proud of this one, as she is goddamn ghetto as hell,talking about fighting other people all the time. I kept feeding her ego, by saying how tough she is and what a real person she is(ugh...) she's totally buying that shit.

Anyway, at some point I hinted at sex, and she got all defensive and said she's not like that, blah blah blah. I BSed my way out and got her to let me give me a massage. Things were good until I tried to lift her legs on my lap to massage them. She got defensive again and walked away. I was like whatever, she's some crazy broad anyway. Now if I were to truly analyze it, I should have eased the sex thing a little, especially after her defense about not having casual sex. Saw her later on with another poor soul, probably having the same talk. Whatever.

Here's one thing about solo work that will ease your way tremendously. 8 out of 10 guys at night club are not getting any action. As you walk around the club, look for some cool looking dudes that are wall posting, and chat them up. Cut the BS about where you are from, what you do blah blah blah. Get straight to the point and talk about getting girls. That's why they are here in the first place. Doing so will make you a lot more social, and especially when you are not feeling particularly confident of approaching from the beginning.

Anyway, I walked up stairs, just surveying the scene. This dude just chatted me up as I walked by. I recruited him and then we went downstairs to the dance floor. Having a wingman always helps with the encouragement. We were just scouting around, and saw 2 Asian HB7 and HB8. I went up to HB8, tapped her on the shoulder, introduced myself and my friend, and met HB7 as well. A little quick note about gaming pairs or groups of girls. If you can, engage the whole group first. Going straight for one of the girls will make the rest of the group feel protective and you will get cock blocked like crazy. Anyway, we started dancing and because I'm somewhat good at dancing, we really fucking LORDed that place. People started forming circles around us, cheering us on. At one point I was dancing with both of them, and spin both of them around, which got quite the applause from the room. Anyway, we danced for like a hour, kid you not. Did a little small talk. HB8 seemed o be very reserve. Every time I put my hand on her waist while dancing she would move it. I even teased her about her shyness. At the end, HB8 wants to leave. I stopped them, and got HB7's number. I didn't even get to give her mine, her friend already pulled her away. I tested her about 30 mins later, not really expecting a reply, just very friendly way of letting her have my number and my name. This is always a good practice when the girl didn't et your number, but you hers. You really don't want your number to show up as unknown to girls when you call them. Most girls don't pick up unknown calls. Once again, even when you are having a great time dancing, when you are solo gaming two or more girls (my wingman bailed on me for some reason, so I was dancing with both of them by myself) , don't stick around too much, and always # close and move on before their losing interest.

After that, I was really tired and got back out to the bar. Chatted some people lightly and just tried to keep myself social. Some point later I recruited a few more guys to be my wingman. When you are not talking girls, why not talk to some guys? Just keep your state going, and try to resist going back to your phone during intermission/ break. Anyway, met this dude, really not that great with women. Scruffy looking, and you can sense the desperation in his eyes. Chatted him up about the game, and exchanged info so we can wingman it up some time. Now I'm no James Bond, but I consider myself intermediate at best. But this guy is serious a AFC, telling me about how he got blown out a few times by girls tonight. Not that I am judging, but when you wingman with lesser dudes, it does boost your ego and you might end up feeling like an alpha very quickly. Of course, I never depend on outside approval to get into state. Core confidence all the way. But if you need a clutch, get a wingman that's under your level. It has its pros and cons just as having wingmen who are above your level. And when you have some shy wingman, you can use that as an opener and introduce him to girls and set him up. I did that with one of my wingmen, and he ended up having a great conversation with this tall blond. He's Damn ecstatic about my help. And man I sure made some good friends tonight.

We kept going back to the dance floor. As some point my friend I met from last night, who helped bailing out my car, showed up. We were just dancing by ourselves when I saw this HB6 just having a bomb ass time dancing. Gentlemen, when you see girls like that dancing and completely losing her inhibition, approach them. They are less likely to reject you, as long as you can match their energy. So I go right around her friends, tapped her on the shoulder and said, "excuse me but I just HAVE to dance with you. You are just having so great time!" We then danced wonderfully for a a few songs while her friends look on. One of the problems of having wingman who are still developing their confidence is that a lot of time they don't join in the group and dance with the other girls. So it almost always leave you dancing with the whole group or having to isolate. Later while we were taking a quick break, I introduced myself to her HB8 friend and I ended up dancing with her and got her number. I tell ya, nailing Gunnam Style with a girl together is fucking rapport building atomic bomb!

Of course, I had a lot more approaches tonight that didn't end with success. But you just shrug it off and move on. Now I want to talk about dance floor approaches a bit. Believe me, I used to be the chodiest chode when it comes to clubbing. I'm the one that hug the drinks all night and sulk. Seriously, down your whatever drink, or just don't drink at all like I did, and just go in the dance floor. Literally anything you do short of crapping your pants will be better than being other sideline. And when it comes to approaching groups on the dance floor (and most girls are in packs, anyway) , always engage the whole group first. You can isolate later. And when you want to dance with a girl, just tap her on the shoulder, introduce yourself with a big ass smile, and stick your hand out like you are expecting hers. If you got good vibe going and not creepy, almost all girls with comply and dance with you. If any girl refuse, either bow out gratefully, and/or try to dance with her friends instead. She will surely come around when she sees you having great time with her friends.

That's about it, really. I had a fucking great time just enjoying myself and being very social with everyone, not just girls.

In summary,my advices are:

  1. Talk to Anyone when you first get to a club.
  2. Recruit wingmen if you are solo
  3. Engage whole group when you first approach, then divide and conquer later.
  4. Don't over stay your welcome. Dance and have fun with the girls, and get'em digits!
  5. Don't drink too much

I'm sure I'm grossing over many nuances of inner game or outter game techniques. I'm no expert or anything, but ask me if you have any questions. Hopefully this post can help others improve their club game better. Cheers and happy new year, folks!