Can someone post a screenshot of texts to show how you make progress?

T3CAT3 · 2013-02-16T04:23:41+00:00

Here's a transcript of mine from a recent semi-success from OkCupid:

Me: I'll bet you're still a troublemaker (she said on her profile that she "used to be" a troublemaker)

Her: Oh no no! Not at all haha I used to be a bad kid! But I do enoy some rebelling every so often. I'm [NAME].

Me: [Small inside joke about her profile].

But I think we should skip the PM'ing ping pong game and go out rebelling sometime soon. We could do something really crazy like skip dinner and go straight for dessert. If you think you can handle it, that is. :)

I'm ThatGuy.

Her: ooh Im not sure that might be a little too intense for me. Next thing u know my whole good girl image will be out the window and ill be causing all sorts of chaos like not looking both ways before crossing the street. Where are you from?

Me: [Where I live]

And I figured my idea might be a little too intense for you. I'm sure we could come up with something a little more tame. What's your phone number? We'll figure something out.

Her: My number is xxx-xxx-xxxx. Hit me up sometime :)

Now it switches to text convo:

Me: Hey it's ThatGuy from OKC. You'll want to make sure you hang onto this number ;)

Her: Hey! Sorry it took me so long to respond lol (it was only about 3 hours). I got you saved :)

Me: You busy tomorrow after 5 or so?

Her: I am I work 4-10 on Fridays :(

Me: Sounds to me like we'll have to meet up for drinks then afterwards :)

Her: Lol where did you have in mind?

Me: You ever been to [Local bar]?

Her: No but I've heard it's a blast! You live in that area?

Me: A few miles away, but not far. It definitely is a blast, let's check it out tomorrow.

The text conversation was yesterday, and that's when she stopped answering. Today I got this around 6 or so:

Her: Tonight is going to have to be a no go for me! I would really like to check that place out and grab a drink so maybe another night with not such short notice?? What does your schedule look like?

Me: My evenings are usually pretty open. I'll get back to you early next week with a plan.

Her: Sounds good to me, hope to hear from you! Let me know :)

So nothing scheduled yet, but I've drawn some genuine interest. Here's to keeping my fingers crossed for next week.

JoieTheVivre · 2013-02-16T22:54:07+00:00

I can't give you the full transcripts but I can give you crucial tips that are the basic building blocks for a successful text-game:

Take your time - Don't answer right away unless the conversation is going fast and slowing it down will 'kill the moment'. Know when to pause for a moment, breath, and then reply. Give her the feeling that you're not waiting for her response and that she doesn't grab your full attention. If you forget about her and she sends a question mark just say that you're talking to other people because you are very popular. DO NOT say it in an apologizing manner starting with "i'm sorry" or "sorry i'm talking to multiple people". Keep selling yourself as a social man surrounded with friends and that she needs to stand out to gain your attention.
Rarely (or don't) use any emoticons - This might be a personal preference, but I never use any emoticons [smileys like '(:' or ':P']. It can help to ease down the tone of your sayings, but in a cheap way. Using such ways are hindering your message. My only exception to that rule is the use of a wink [ ';)' ] in the correct context (mostly good when talking about a dirty subject or something with a sexual innuendo). I only use emoticons in an ironic matter (important to add that the person knows i'm doing it as a joke) or when saying "good morning", which is my next tip.
SEND HER A 'GOOD MORNING'. I can't express how important that is when text-gaming. Just follow these simple steps:

a. Wake up

b. Send her "good morning". You can add an emoticon, add a private joke that she'll enjoy, or "I had tons of fun last night".

c. ???

d. PROFIT (usualy f-close in the near future)

That's for now. Enjoy and show us your results

SirWill · 2013-02-16T08:21:08+00:00

Here's a basic example of how text progress would go after getting the number at the bar the night before:

Me: Hey! It's SirWill from last night, how's your day going?

Her: Hey! It's going good, how about you?

(If she responds to your first text, half the battle is won, when getting numbers at bars/clubs, not all respond.)

Me: Pretty good! A little hungover haha. So you go to x University? What are you taking there?

Her: Yup! I'm taking Bla bla bla, How about you? What do you do?

Me: Continue small talk / intro shit.

Then literally whenever you're getting a good vibe, throw in something like this;

Me: Yup! I really like the program I'm in, for sure! Up for getting coffee sometime this week ?

Her: Yeah! For sure :)

Me: Okay, how doess, Tuesday sound? 6pm @ the Starbucks on Spring Garden?

Her: Sure! That works for me

Done.

So simple, introduce yourself, if she responds, you're most likely going to get a minimum of a coffee date, or whatever your first date preference is. Don't respond instantly, unless she is.. even still, be cautious rapid fire texting. Show as much interest as she is in the conversation. Don't text twice in a row.

birdwontquit · 2013-02-16T23:08:33+00:00

Here's one.

Gave this girl my number by saying "Okay you've intrigued me. You can have my number now". She texts me later.

Her: I never really asked for your number lol

Me: I know you didn't. But I wanted you to have it. I like to take control.

Her: I like a man who takes control. Timid people irritate me.

Me: I know you do.

Me: That's why you're going to come to my place and do everything I tell you to. [this was overly aggressive, I was drunk, and we exchanged some explicit conversation earlier, but this is a bit dangerous]

Her: Hahaha nope

Her: You cray

Me: Lol not tonight

Me: I'm going to bed

Her: Night

Me: Night. Xo.

2 days later

Me: Can you salsa dance?

Me: And do you work Monday night?

Her: Yes and I get out at 4pm

Me: Great. I can't, but I'm learning. Salsa dancing monday night at XX. You're going to be my teacher.

Her: Hahaha I'm not the best teacher I'm a better follower. I don't have much patience or interest to teach but we shall see. What time does the fun begin?

Her: 7PM, $2 coronas and $3 margaritas. Craziness lol. [she googled it]

Me: Haha yep. It's a lot of fun. If you can put aside your judgement over your superior dancing skills you can be my partner, otherwise I'll invite an amateur like myself.

Her: Hahaha I think I can curb my judgement for a bit

Me: That's more like it.

Me: I'll text you Monday to figure out logistics. Wear one of those sexy dresses you have.

Her: Lol demanding things already. Let me know. I work till 4 then I'm free as a bird... I believe.

Me: Haha I told you I like to be in control. Good, keep it free. No time for flakey girls. [not sure if this was needed, but she seemed to be a bit on the fence, we'll see, she didn't respond to that one]

2013-02-16T04:17:24+00:00

Fucking this.

Title	Can someone post a screenshot of texts to show how you make progress?
Author	Incaahhh
Upvotes	45
Comments	20
Date	February 16, 2013 2:26 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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