Why might high value, high SMV women sleep with you but never consider dating you?

CainPrice · 2018-10-17T16:46:45+00:00

You can be a good-looking, fun, interesting guy, but have low relationship value. You can also suck in bed. Possibly, you're also good at finding women who are primarily looking for casual sex and aren't after a relationship at this stage of their lives.

[deleted] · 2018-10-17T17:38:48+00:00

It's either the girls you're picking or you. Girls want relationships generally, but not all girls do and all girls don't always. Are you jacked but poor? Prime ONS material. But there's a ton of reasons it could be.

Psychological_Radish · 2018-10-17T20:59:24+00:00

That's the whole point of the dual sexual strategy: Alpha fucks, Beta bucks.

So you look good and/or talk a smooth Game...great! Keep getting those Alpha fucks. But a lot of factors go into relationship value. Hypergamy always seeks its own level (or above) for long term provisioning; if she thinks she can get a better provider than you, then there isn't much you can do other than inherit a gigantic fortune from a distant uncle. Without knowing anything about your personal circumstances, we can't pinpoint where exactly the problem lies.

Edit: Just noticed your comment about living at home...that would certainly do it. Girls don't want something serious with a guy that lives with mommy. In any case, most girls your age are still in their party years. Don't worry about getting a relationship now with a dumb hoe.

[deleted] · 2018-10-17T17:34:48+00:00

Ur diq stinks

[deleted] · 2018-10-18T01:49:10+00:00

You give off fuckboy vibes. What do you expect. Lol.

Bro, you are her cheat meal. A juicy hamburger that she might Instagram for attention but she’s not gonna bring you into the house.

You want to date? Stop trying to be her cheat meal.

coconutscentedcat · 2018-10-18T03:09:03+00:00

You're probably physically attractive, but lack in 'having your life together' (good job, drive, maturity etc.).

[deleted] · 2018-10-18T01:26:06+00:00

Are you really a swole stoner?

Brokebeast101 · 2018-10-18T11:33:05+00:00

You're their alpha cock you humble bragging motherfucker.

[deleted] · 2018-10-22T10:17:55+00:00

As a girl. Like one of the comments above, you probably give off fuckboy vibes.

Women seek men who would make a good father to their children (if marriage/children is ultimately their main goal.)

If you give off fuckboy vibes we get a sense of feeling you’re sleeping with other women/more likely to cheat.

Title	Why might high value, high SMV women sleep with you but never consider dating you?
Author	SwoleStoner
Upvotes	9
Comments	20
Date	October 17, 2018 4:45 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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