Just got the girl of my dreams, how to keep her around?

Mr_Latino · 2013-03-31T20:23:32+00:00

I would suggest clicking on the top posts icon on this subreddit, and you will find a post on how to keep the girl once you have her. It covers many points and i think it will help you. Its on the all-time top posts list.

JayZizek · 2013-04-01T04:25:16+00:00

1.) Resist the temptation to put her on a pedestal. Don't do it. 2.) Never stop cultivating your inner alpha. 3.) Do not let her be your everything, ever. 4.) Read this. Then read it again. 5.) This website is also your friend. 6.) Seriously. Kick her off of that pedestal right now.

Ben_KickassAcademy · 2013-04-01T00:34:23+00:00

Be the best sex she has ever had. This is not a snarky or sarcastic answer, this is the best advice anyone can give you. If you blow her mind in bed, she'll think about you A LOT and go to great lengths to see you again.

If you want resources to help with this, check out Sex God Method or Kickassery and if you want more advice after that, PM me and we can talk it out.

funkykingston · 2013-04-01T00:49:18+00:00

Don't know if you're asking for advice about getting her or keeping her as a girlfriend. Here's both.

Honestly, it sounds like you got her already. A mistake is to keep trying to show off when you've already won her over. Just let the air in and let that fire burn on its own.

But if you guys settle down into relationship, there are those little everyday things that seem to count a lot more to her than to you. Surprising her with a date somewhere or a little gift, something she mentioned once but thought you weren't listening, etc... I made breakfast in bed for my girlfriend everyday just because it felt like the thing to be doing. She might not say that much at the time, but trust me, they remember.

Also, MANAGE EXPECTATIONS. She will have flaws eventually. Flaws that you don't think are cutesy anymore. For this reason, I recommend from experience pacing yourself emotionally. Don't expect her to fix anything for you.

Dyolf_Knip · 2013-04-01T12:52:23+00:00

Find the clitoris!

Wiggin_Andrew · 2013-03-31T20:22:54+00:00

First question needs to be (and I am sorry it has to be, but) have you slept with her yet?

If so, there's nothing we can tell you, I am afraid. Maintaining relationships is on the part of the individual as opposed to being setup in a guide or something.

If you have not slept with her yet, use what you read here in order to do so.

Good luck

Title	Just got the girl of my dreams, how to keep her around?
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Date	March 31, 2013 8:09 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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