Hey Seddit, how are you this fine Friday!

I'm sure we're all excited for the weekend, but I wanted to address a topic that seems to fly a little under the radar but I think is critical to having a good night: Wings. Get it, that was a good pun, wasn't it?

Moving on.

Reading through RSDJulien's AMA yesterday, I saw this topic came up a few times, and it's something that obviously I've had to deal with myself, which is how do you go out solo?

Well, let's be honest here, going out solo may be necessary and healthy for your development as a social animal, but I don't think anyone would argue that it's anywhere near as "fun" as chercher-ing la femme with a buddy or two.

However, as I grow older, I find my list of potential wingmen diminishes. My friends get married, my friends move out of town, I move out of town, we get jobs that have conflicting schedules, and, horror of horrors, some of my friends just decide that this lifestyle isn't what they want anymore, so they start stepping out of the scene.

Question 1: Where do you find a wingman?

I don't know if anyone else feels this way, but it's tough to find guy friends. It can feel awkward to "close" a guy for his phone number. Moreover, it seems like the most logical place to meet a fellow buddy interested in this same pursuit would be at a bar, but let's be honest, he's trying to meet girls, and so am I. And whether it's right or wrong, that's generally where our minds are both at, so why distract ourselves looking for "bros?"

I guess this is a broader question of "how do you make friends?" But that's never really been a challenge for me. I can make lots of friends, but I want to find guys my age who are going out with the same exact mindset: improving themselves with women, and with socializing in general.

Question 2: What are the qualities that make for a good Wingman and how do you identify those?

I think we all have friends who perhaps are not ideal to take on such an outing, and we have at least one friend who brings the best out of us and makes us reach new heights. And I think we have other friends that make us feel subconscious. So what are the qualities that make for that individual that's ideal to "sarge?"

And finally, a request, I'm looking for someone to "sarge" with in the Los Angeles scene, probably the Hollywood or West Hollywood area, but I'm open to ideas. If there's any takers, PM me your info and let's go create some legen ... wait for it ... dary FR material.