I've did some searching and couldn't find many topics on this subject on seddit.

I've been browsing this subreddit for quite some time and I've gotten pretty decent at seduction. Not good enough that I'm chatting up girls left and right on the street but I've really improved and for that I would like to say thanks.

However I've got a huge problem when it comes to the relationship stage. I'm a guy (I'm 18 btw) that prefers relationships over hook-ups. I like having a stable relationship with someone. Thanks to seddit and the experience I've acquired over the past year from short time hook-ups or so I'm now entering my first relationship.

Now in the early stages it was golden; I was outcome independent, great conversation flowing, really focused, etc. Now that we've gotten slightly more serious together (unofficially together) my game has flown out the window. My happiness has started to be dependent on her and I overanalize stupid trivial things. I want to see her really often. I searched around and asked friends about this and they told me that it's normal to be feeling this way - the initial stage of a relationship is always like this due to lots of hormones and emoticons, being love-struck and all. I'm positive she's into me and everything is going well, but I'm looking for some guidance to not fuck this up.

My problem is this: I want to keep this relationship going strong and well by continuing to be myself. However because of these emotions I have the symptoms of oneitis and instead of letting my awesomeness flow out naturally and unconciously, I overthink things and worry about how I can continue gaming her to keep her interested in me.

I know that the general advice for this is to have an exciting life and hobbies where a girlfriend isn't needed to give you happiness. I'm aware of this and I do have things going on in my life, but nevertheless this girl stuff is really bothering me and I can't stop thinking about her.

tl;dr: how do you continue being awesome in a relationship?