We mostly speak about initial attraction here..

FRSTKZ · 2013-05-15T21:13:09+00:00

Keep doing what you did to get her in the first place. Even if you get married, treat every encounter with her as a date.

Southy97 · 2013-05-15T21:53:38+00:00

Be awesome is kinda the key. When I was in university I had met lots of guys who could close quickly and would have a one night stand with a girl. Problem was that after that they couldent get her back again. These guys I would say were slightly more attractive looking than me. Anyways, as University goes, there is a venn diagram of sorts in reguards to hook ups, as in I crossed over and hooked up with girls they had and vice versa. Basically what happened was they would come asking me why the girls would stick around for more and want to date and so one with me. They felt they looked better and had better game therefore they should yeild the better results. Basically they would brign a girl into our group of friends and sleep with her. While she was chatting and getting to know us she would fall for a guy like me and pursue me after.

I am not trying to be cocky, I myself am trying to be open minded and learn as much as I can, but I feel the reasons why are:

1: I am 21 and most guys my age arent as mature as me. A wise man does not say he is wise but it is just evident and girls have told me.

2: I am a university grad and I have a trade. I have a mind and I have the ability to work with my hands. Girls love this. I found I get more positive attention when I tell girls I am a tradesman over a uni grad.

I constantly work on improving myself, not so much my game. It may sound gay but I can paint like a mother fucker, wood work, cook, sew, and look after myself and my fiscal responsibilities. When girls realize you have a good head on your shoulders than thats more effective than 6 pack abs alot of the time.

So basically, improve yourself! learn a new skill, guitar, anything really. Put the openers and routines aside for a couple months and focus on you and making you the awesome person you want to be perceived as.

Hope this helps!

Southy

EggoGF · 2013-05-15T21:52:00+00:00

Be funny and rock her world in bed. You'll see that look on her face and you'll know.

EarthquakeBass · 2013-05-16T02:39:44+00:00

Orgasms. As many as possible. You may think I'm being funny, but I'm not.

RichardArcher · 2013-05-15T21:26:01+00:00

Keep it spicy.

ortofon88 · 2013-05-16T03:05:07+00:00

Be fun and at ease, be great in bed.

kingcal · 2013-05-16T03:44:29+00:00

Be really good in bed. Seriously. Learn how to go down on a girl. I've had tons of girls tell me I was the first guy who went down on her, or was good at going down on her, and the reaction is amazing. They have no idea what just hit them. My ex told me she'd probably continue to date me even if she didn't really like me anymore just for the sex.

Title	We mostly speak about initial attraction here..
Author	nuferasgurd
Upvotes	14
Comments	8
Date	May 15, 2013 8:00 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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