Any help for a Highschooler?

VMikeL · 2013-05-22T14:06:41+00:00

Here are some boxes to tick when it comes to being a better, and more attractive YOU.

Health - This means keeping clean, being in shape, and keeping healthy. Cleanliness is important, It's hard to K-close when your breathe smells, or for that matter, it's hard to hold a conversation when your armpits are creating nasal repellents. Being in shape is more than the obvious biological triggers, but it's also good for other things - such as being physically useful. And keeping healthy, unless this is who you are qualifying for, drugs, cigarettes, and fast food are all kinda shit.

Wealth - This is more about your goals and potentials than it is about your ACTUAL net worth. Let's not lie to ourselves, but having money to spend is friggin' awesome. HOWEVER, as many of the people on this community know, just being the provider is a good way to lose the girl as fast as you got her. This is more about your potential self. Girls are great talent scouts, they are attracted to the potential of success as much as they are the ACTUAL success - kinda how there are these girls who stick around those C-grade shitty rock bands, in the hopes that if they make it one day, they had sex with a future celebrity. If you know what you want to do, and you are taking steps to do THAT, you are on the right track.

Relationships - A well connected man is an attractive man. So is one that has unlimited social proof. Relationships is all about... well relationships. If you want that HB10, she's likely to have a lot of people in her life system, friends, fake friends, family, etc... It will help you greatly if you can compare, or match her in those regards.

I hope this helps.

ApathyTX · 2013-05-22T15:00:21+00:00

Just wake up every morning, look yourself in the mirror, say "I'm fucking awesome.", then go about your day.

It works.

DCLdit · 2013-05-22T19:44:31+00:00

Hello callywag. Some great advice already mentioned. As a young man you should start developing a set of values (ex. you could say to yourself, "I value honesty, intelligence, authenticity, etc."). These preferences (along with hobbies, interests, beliefs, etc.) will help create your identity and also narrow down the women to the ones you would actually like. Set personal boundaries, if you do not like something do not do it, despite what people think. Take the risk of not being accepted by others. Being courageous leads to confidence, always. This shows that your comfortable being vulnerable and you are not needy. Being confident in yourself emits off your body and is felt by others around you (being attractive). Once you have a solid framework in your mind of values, preferences, personal boundaries and lack of neediness it will become even easier for you to make your way through the plethora of info on the side bar and other places. Good luck.

avg2pua · 2013-05-23T01:00:01+00:00

I can give you tips, but to be honest, if you don't know the basics, READ THE SIDEBAR.

You can read all the little tips you want, but you'll misuse them if you don't know the basics. If you want this to be productive, don't half ass it, you need to understand why the things you're doing are positive, or you'll end up one of those cheesy guys using overly orchestrated pickup lines on girls that can spot you a mile off. It's not a good look.

Put a bit of work in and do the reading!

Title	Any help for a Highschooler?
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Date	May 22, 2013 12:59 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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