I'm 18 and this girl is 17. I didn't bring this topic up with her but whenever we make out (or even hold hands!) I always have to initiate. It was pretty cool and understandable at first when we just met, I just sticked to the knowledge I learned about kissing girls here on seddit and it went great. Now everytime I meet up with her I feel pretty lame about it and I don't know what's up...do girls just except guys to initiate all the time? If I do go for it and the situation is right she's always down for kissing however she'll never actually initiate first or show clear intent.

I tried searching this topic but all the kissing stuff is related to girls you've just met or are meeting - I fooled around with this girl plenty of times already. I believe it's been enough time for her to get comfortable and I'm positive she likes me - why won't she kiss me first?