I can get numbers, but they wont answer when I call?

banalredditing · 2013-06-26T10:55:57+00:00

You aren't bridging. a Phone is just a means to get a transition between your two events.

If you haven't already made plans with her, and the phone is just a way to hash out if shes ready, youre doing it wrong.

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-06-26T11:01:44+00:00

Women give out their numbers easily now, because they use the caller ID in their phones and don't answer numbers they aren't expecting or aren't in their phone book. So getting numbers is worthless. It's better if you can put your number in her phone, so at least it shows your name when you call.

But ultimately it comes down to: she doesn't want to answer your call. For her to pick up, you have to give her a reason to answer, make her want to answer. If you've done a "time bridge;" you've made a plan and she wants you to call so you can get together and do it.

ohitsmj · 2013-06-26T07:46:16+00:00

There's any number of things that could lead to a bad number, they're busy, they don't know who the hell is calling, if they do they don't want to answer. Worst case, you didn't build enough attraction for them to give you a chance, best case, they're busy.

Give it some time, approach more people and get more numbers. From now on, start looking back on your interactions, critique yourself, come on here, post what you did, and get feedback. Also remember, your perception of yourself can be vastly different from the other person's.

Uh, yeah, keep approaching but remember your interactions for future critique.

rmbarnes · 2013-06-26T21:32:33+00:00

Text, don't call. I rarely answer calls from unknown numbers, and I'm sure girls are the same. Also many people actually don't like taking calls on their mobile's; it's an interruption.
If lots of girls don't answer the most common reason is that they aren't very attracted to you. Read up on becoming more attractive to women.

recyclablebantha · 2013-06-26T09:15:51+00:00

Three times in a row this has happened to me: I've gotten a beautiful girl's number; first time it was at the uni library, second time it was at a cafe in the city, third time I cold approached on campus. What ended up happening? I called, and none of them answered. Three. girls. in a row.

Is there something I could be doing wrong? I am generally a pretty happy and cheerful sort of person, well spoken, and I don't think myself to be boring either.

You probably are doing something wrong. But do you realize that you haven't told us enough so that we can make even a guess as to what that might be?

It is clearly a problem with how you're approaching and whatever conversation you're having with them before you get the number.

If you make a connection with a girl, she'll fucking answer the phone and it will be easy to get her out on at least one date.

2013-06-27T03:02:21+00:00

From past experiences I learned in this video to hook a girl after getting her number. So after I get a girl's number I usually say:

"Oh and by the way wanna know something?" and she goes what is it? Then I usually say, "You know what I'll let you know when we meet or talk again. I have to go."

And she will want to know badly that when she calls, I say "Bet me that I can know what has been on your mind" and she will say sure deal

"You were thinking about me and couldn't resist knowing what I wanted to say." and from there keep teasing and joking and just eventually she'll forget about it as you keep the convo upbeat and not let it go low. Its a risky move considering it would make you look douchey, I guess, but the upbeat conversation makes the trick work.

soyabean45 · 2013-06-27T12:08:08+00:00

what i usually do once i get the number is i tell the girl im going to send you a text to remember me by and tell her you will know it is me. then i send her 8=D usually she sends an lol and remembers you

readonlyuser · 2013-07-04T16:39:32+00:00

Before I even give advice, get more than three numbers. You don't even have enough of a sample size to determine if you ARE doing something wrong. The fact that you're stunned by three bad results shows me you're in the wrong headspace. More girls, more wooden numbers, more rejections.

Title	I can get numbers, but they wont answer when I call?
Author	davincenzi
Upvotes	6
Comments	11
Date	June 26, 2013 7:28 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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