How can I make regular conversation more flirty?

OGprotein · 2013-07-14T03:05:00+00:00

jazz hands

Ziggy319 · 2013-07-13T17:48:34+00:00

Make your intentions clear from the beginning, just tell them how you feel. "Hi, I think you're adorable and came over to talk to you. I'm Ziggy319."

penis_sosmall · 2013-07-14T18:12:22+00:00

I throw little pieces of paper at girls. Seriously.

You can then reach out, grab their arm... be like... Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry I hit you, how will you ever forgive me? Don't let go during that interaction. Smile.

DJSamDiamond · 2013-07-13T18:56:34+00:00

Treat EVERYTHING they say as a euphemism/innuendo... Sooner or later they will say something that you can "misunderstand"... Ask for clarification or carry on the conversation with the "dirty" premise... It will confuse them for a second as their brain reconciles everything... You can help this along by clarifying with "Oh you meant [what they were innocently talking about]..." It's like tagging a comment with "that's what she said" but sounding less like a total pig...

Once they consider there is a possible dirty connotation, they will either be disgusted with you or get a laugh... If they're disgusted, they may have some hangups about themselves, sex etc... They won't be much fun... If they laugh (even if they're a little embarassed at first), congratulations... You've made them think and feel something AND you took the conversation there (and let her feel like she did!!).

You can use this a few times in the same set before it starts getting old... By then, hopefully, the conversation is where you want it anyway.

systemofaderp · 2013-07-13T18:00:30+00:00

flirting is a game, just on a subtle level.

if she is interested she is already playing, if she is not then you have to hint that you want to play.

so you're in a conversation and you make her smile, you start with something like: "you have a cute smile, you must have practiced it for ages in front of the mirror"

now she should know that you want to play.

if she gets it, start getting (more) touchy. a cheerful, harmless fistbump against her arm. just basic kino.

remember: she has to get used to you touching her. also touching makes you "real" to her.

so after a little while you get that she's interested, how do you get a kiss? how about the "can i try something?":

you have you arm behind her because you either did the cheesy yawning trick and had a laugh that it actually worked, or you are just such a laid back guy, that you can put your arm there (alpha as fuck).

now you lean in and say: "can i try something?" and you kiss her. easy.

recyclablebantha · 2013-07-13T17:56:31+00:00

Whenever I try to hit on a girl , I always end up talking to them like I'm just a friend. So its hard to transition to anything more.

First off, there's nothing wrong with being friendly. That's what being social IS. You don't need to do anything fancy. And being social doesn't eliminate the possibility of anything more happening. It actually increases the odds that the two of you will be relaxed and you'll be able to actually discover if there's a connection there or not.

If you're discovering a connection AND you're not preoccupied inside of your head, than things will progress finely. You'll notice opportunities: She'll present them and you'll take advantage.

Even when a girl is obviously interested, it seems like the big thing to change from us talking to the kiss. My style is pretty layed back, relaxed. What are some fluid and subtle things I can do to make my approaches more flirty

If you are listening to her and you're discovering a connection through ordinary conversation, then you won't have to work too hard to "transition" because she'll be doing at least half of the work for you.

I guess you should be sure you're comfortable with kino escalation.... at some point you'll need to be up in her space so it's natural for you guys to be touching.

Title	How can I make regular conversation more flirty?
Author	rozza228
Upvotes	12
Comments	11
Date	July 13, 2013 5:17 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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