[FR] Friendzoned a 9/10 blonde for the reference experience. Don't be afraid to say "No."

minutestomidnight · 2013-08-10T10:56:13+00:00

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bluecore · 2013-08-10T10:29:42+00:00

I don't see the point in saying no if you want to say yes.

Looks like you friendzoned her for the wrong reasons. If a man wants something, he should go straight to it, using his intelligence, being honest and stating his intentions clearly, yada yada yada. Mark Manson's shit. That's what a man does, even if he's terrified at the possibility of failing.

Behaving like a girl and trying to intellectualize it throught some wrong logic ("girls do it all of the time") is not empowering. We are not girls. Real empowerment comes from another place.

changeh · 2013-08-10T13:38:03+00:00

Sounds like you made her feel shitty as a form of revenge from all your bad experience when this girl generally liked you.

Yungclowns · 2013-08-10T10:08:37+00:00

I don't know how I feel about this. It seems like you are being dishonest to yourself by not having sex with her if you were attracted to her. Obviously you can decide 'No' for any reason you like. I just don't know about denying yourself for virtually no reason.

oliver_tate · 2013-08-10T10:39:21+00:00

So you're saying no to an attractive girl to get an ego boost?

minutestomidnight · 2013-08-10T14:08:51+00:00

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kingshen · 2013-08-10T14:13:22+00:00

i can think of the idea of the article because its sometimes the way women treat men. but i dont think its a good idea to turn this thing around. the author mentioned several times that she has to feel bad or unwanted. why would you do this? nobody wants to feel this way and its kind of unfair to treat a girl or man this way.

tho i upvoted the post because i understood the point of the article

Title	[FR] Friendzoned a 9/10 blonde for the reference experience. Don't be afraid to say "No."
Author	minutestomidnight
Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	August 10, 2013 9:52 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1k2zhc/fr_friendzoned_a_910_blonde_for_the_reference/
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