First post:

Wow. I cannot believed that actually worked. Lets jump in.

This girl I know through mutual friends, lets call her Sarah (HB7.5), happens to be in town for summer school/work. I've always had a bit of a crush on her but have never really acted upon it due to the fear of being shot down.

I ran into sarah a few days ago at the mall and immediately activate everything I've learned from this subreddit by lurking for the past 2 months. Strong eye contact, I immediately say "hi" to her within the first 3 seconds of seeing her and give her a big hug. I do a little small talk and ask her why she in town etc, after a little while of talking I put in a time constraint and say Im in a hurry and have to get somewhere and we should meet up sometime later this week, number close.

I text her the next day and tell her I want to come see her puppy that she just got and watch a movie at her place (we talked about this new movie at the mall and both wanted to see it). She agrees and I let her know that Ill be over around 9. Few things to note here, I kept texting to a minimum, a few jokes negging her about her puppy problems and then immediately pop the question to hang out. Except I didnt really say it in a question tone rather I just declared that we should do it. "Im gonna come over to see your puppy later and then we can watch that movie too" I found this to be quite effective throughout this interaction.

When I got there she was making enchiladas for the first time in her life so I decided this would be a great opportunity for kino. Her kitchen was small and I used that to my advantage. Rubbed arms against her as we both cooked, lots of body to body touching as we squeezed around the kitchen. Made her laugh plenty of times, very light atmosphere.

When we started watching the movie I sat near her on the couch but not too close, gradually I moved closer as the movie progressed and eventually we were touching each other. I poked her throughout the movie whenever I teased her, and she would do the same when teasing me (IOI). A few times she mentioned her 6 pack that she was working on (crossfit) and I asked to feel it, felt her 6 pack (kino?).

Eventually we decided we wanted to go out, she invited her friend (my co-worker) and we pregamed a little and went to go bar-hop. Lots of kino at the bar, she was being receptive. Kino got more bold on my part as I had a few drinks in me at this point. Met up with a few of our friends at the bar, had a great time. Eventually night ended and we sat in my car so I could drop her off, as we neared her house I TOLD her we should finish our movie and she agreed. Went upstairs, watched the movie, cuddled for a bit and she was getting sleepy. Told her we should head to bed. She obliged. Before we went to bed while watching the movie I tried to make our conversation a little more sexual by asking what the craziest thing she has ever done with a guy. She seemed like good girl so didnt have any wild stories. Went to bed, eventually starting making out. Didn't F-Close but got close. Was very surprised to find out she had nipple piercings, did not expect that at all from this girl, negged her for it.

Key points: KINO KINO KINO. I never realized how important Kino is until I implemented it with this girl. It can just be light brushes of skin to skin contact but it will do wonders.

Eye contact, strong eye contact=confidence. Of course look away when she does (dont be creepy) but dont be the first to break eye contact.

Try to eventually make the conversation sexual, It gets her imagination running.

Help: The next day I texted:

me "Hope you had fun last night!"

her "Lol that was too much for me"

me "haha yea, but its ok. You needed a break, too much work is bad for ya.

and then we had a little small talk and the conversation just drifted off to a halt. Shes not really receptive over text like she was before and is almost ignoring me now.

I had a feeling that shes kind of a "good girl" and doesn't really do this often. I kind of feel bad (even though I shouldn't) and dont really know how to handle this at this point. Suggestions?

Thanks for reading!