I know there's a thousand resource, but I'm looking for some articles on nice guy syndrome.

reezyreddits · 2013-09-06T15:51:00+00:00

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JihadDerp · 2013-09-06T20:59:30+00:00

I'll try to sum it all up for you right here: Don't cater to women. Know your standards and values and seek women accordingly. Be vocal about things you don't like. For example, I don't care how hot the girl I'm talking to is, if I see her pull out a cigarette, I say something like, "Oh, gross," or "I hope you don't expect me to kiss you tonight." 9 times out of 10 they'll apologize and put it away or make an excuse like "I only smoke when I drink." All of a sudden, they're catering to you. But if you don't say anything and then she asks if you smoke and you sheepishly say no, she'll see that you're trying to accommodate something you don't like, and that makes you look like a needy pushover, which is about attractive to women as a turd dildo.

Nice guys try to cast too wide a net and make all girls like them. That's silly nonsense. If you try to make everyone like you, nobody will like you. You have to know what you want and then screen out the rest. Guys with a firm spine regarding their standards and boundaries are more attractive to women than guys who are too nice and accommodating.

Rp0wnag3 · 2013-09-06T15:32:03+00:00

Research assertivness it helped myself learn a more balanced and healthy way to build relationships

Title	I know there's a thousand resource, but I'm looking for some articles on nice guy syndrome.
Author	erthian
Upvotes	4
Comments	13
Date	September 6, 2013 3:28 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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