Hey guys, just wanted to pose a quick theory:

Lately I have been reading a lot about being outcome-independent and it's importance to success. Outcome independence requires you not approaching to get something, but approaching to give value. Because not trying to get something means you are non-needy, and being non-needy is, as posed by Mark Manson, the state where you are more invested in yourself ('vulnerability') than in what others think about you.

To conclude this would mean that if you're very invested in yourself this would automatically mean that you are outcome independent? So in order to become more outcome independent you just have to invest more in yourself.

When writing this post my theory sounded a lot like a shortcut, like I'm missing some reasoning steps along the way, but let me know what you guys think.