There are 3 major dating mistakes I see guys making ALL the time that are really hurting your chances out there:

(1) Over-gaming -- You really need to know when to shut off the routines and game and just engage in a normal conversation. Too many guys don't know when to stop with the cocky-funny or whatever game they are kicking and just be a normal human being.

(2) Gaming based on how much you like her -- Usually this means taking it way too slow and being a total chump when it's a girl you actually like. If you are getting girls doing a particular thing, then you definitely don't want to deviate from what works on a girl you like! Make her attracted to you, don't show her how much you like her; liking a girl does NOT make her attracted to you.

(3) Not escalating enough -- Stop getting to the 5 yard line, with no defenders in sight, and then calling a freaking timeout! If you can close, then CLOSE. Stop waiting. Stop thinking "she isn't that kind of girl" or "I don't want to rush it because I am afraid she'll say no". If you think you can close. CLOSE.

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