OUTER GAME: 7 ways to isolate your target at a bar/club

Sakred · 2013-09-23T18:43:25+00:00

"7 ways to isolate your target"

This is the most rapey sounding title I've seen in a while.

kometxxl · 2013-09-24T00:36:38+00:00

5) Just ask her to leave with you — you can ask her to leave with you to another bar, to grab a late snack, or even your place. You can also suggest her entire group join you at a new venue or back at your place for a few drinks or whatnot.

I live in a big house. We even have a party basement (german fraternity) and have done that a few times. But often I bring home 3-5 girls and we are only 2-3 guys.

Its easy to separate one of the girls, because its a big house. But I never got to the point to get one girl to stay.. Its always the whole group stays or leaves together.. What can I change to get this one girl to stay?

HappyJerk · 2013-09-23T23:01:19+00:00

It's not about "isolating"; it's about "moving" - if you can convince somebody to move with you to a different area, you've already made a huge step in your relationship. A simple example would be asking them to walk with you to the bar to get a drink or taking them to meet your friends. You can always go back, but the key is to be in control and make "moves" with them.

joshsway · 2013-09-23T19:03:36+00:00

how much does a drink cost, $13?

jesus christ, $13?

joshsway · 2013-09-23T14:14:24+00:00

This is one of the hardest things to do in my opinion... most advice focus on #1 (befriend the group and then ask to borrow) which is a good one, but I wanted to also present some other options.

SellTheSun · 2013-09-23T20:36:13+00:00

These are good tips and all of them work. Isolating from an even numbered set (you and your wingman and 2 girls) and isolating from a set of 5 when you are alone, however are two entire different beasts and probably should each have their own article.

HappyJerk · 2013-09-24T05:25:14+00:00

I know I'm going to get downvoted heavily for this, but I don't see the point in "isolating." The point is to establish attraction. Period. If you have that, you can fuck them whenever you want. Some girls are just not going to leave the club with a random guy they just met, and some girls have hawkish friends that will absolutely cockblock you to the ends of the earth. Rather than trying to "isolate" work on establishing attraction (which sometimes requires moving around in the club so she knows who's boss), and then everything else comes to you.

donit · 2013-09-26T16:09:24+00:00

Great article! We should try to think of some more openers to say to the friends. I got one:

introduction ladder: Hi, my name is ____ , nice to meet you. Hi, my name is ____ , nice to meet you. Hi, my name is ____ , nice to meet you.

Then when you reach the target, she'll see that you've already met her friends.

SmilerAl · 2013-09-23T17:07:25+00:00

I'd also try the "Coming out for a smoke?" line. Depending where you live, clubs should have designated smoking areas outside.

Im cringing, its like unless you have a script to follow you have no initiative to follow up.

txroller · 2013-09-23T18:29:07+00:00

I think meeting girls through dating sites is 100% easier. I hate single bars with a PASSION

edit: forgot that I don't smoke and second hand smoke makes me sick

2013-09-23T20:47:59+00:00

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Title	OUTER GAME: 7 ways to isolate your target at a bar/club
Author	joshsway
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Date	September 23, 2013 2:13 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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I think meeting girls through dating sites is 100% easier. I hate single bars with a PASSION