Background: First post on Seddit. I've been lurking for about six months to gain a better understanding of inner game. My lack of confidence has cost me on quite a few occasions, as I use to be one of those "nice guys", until being a nice guy cost me losing my virginity to and HB 9. I'm still a virgin, but no opportunities have turned into missed opportunities, so there's been improvement.

So, I'm a tutor at my school's writing lab, and one of mt friends invites me to her Halloween party. This is perfect, as nerdy English girls are my wheel house. I break out the Black knight costume, grab some drinks and head to the party.

Things start well, sit down to a game of cards of humanity and establish myself as a personality within the group. Proceed to mingle with the rest of the party goers; learn some of the girls and guys names, grab a couple hugs. End up playing "fuck you" and get a little drunk. Start talking to a HB 7 I know from the writing lab, make a joke that ends up back firing, decide to try my luck else where. (Forcing myself out of the scarcity mind set).

Que the HB 6 in the corner. She's wearing a Harry Potter Raven Claw uniform. We'd played a couple games before this, and I start chatting her up. I get her to laugh, maintain eye contact, always have a bit of a smirk going. As we continue talking, I continue getting a little closer to her, she starts playing and commenting on my beard. Conversation continues, I maintain eye contact, while occasionally moving to her lips. She catches my glances, smiles and ducks her head a bit. I smirk and start stealing kisses. She's getting into it, but says her ride is there. Other girls still at the party, want tonight to be about confidence boosting, so I ask for her number. She gives it, and says she hopes I text her.

Rest of night goes without incidence. Chat up and caress an HB 5, but there's another guy there and neither of us allows the other to get the upper hand. I might have been able to make something work, but this night is already a big success in my book, so I decide to go home.

This morning I go on Facebook and decide to look the HB 6 up. Turns out she is engaged. I had no idea, and she never mentioned this. Now, I'm a little torn. On the one hand, she's engaged and I'm not sure how I feel about continuing the seduction. On the other, I'm feeling a bit of pride.

My current plan is to text her and never mention the fact I know she's engaged. Fake ignorance is bliss I suppose.