So this is far more tricky for me than I thought. After graduating high school I realized that I know have to contact girls I've hooked up with in parties or whatever since I can't just see them in school and tell them to come over after.

Now I'm kinda just asking girls on casual dates (ice cream, chill with friends, etc) to meet up again and then on the date I ask them to come over or whatever.

I feel like that's kind of pointless and the girl knows I just want to get her back to my house. Is it better to just text her something like "Hey, I had fun last night. You should come over on (some day later in the week)"?

Also, should you kiss a girl you hooked up with before on a date like this when greeting her? I'm always confused about when kissing is okay again or not.

Thanks!