Hi guys,

Haven't wrote one of these in a while, so I figured I would now that I've made a little progress. As usual, any advice or thoughts would be much appreciated.

So I went on a spontaneous lunch date with a gorgeous foreign exchange girl in my class last Thursday, which went pretty well (lasted two hours). Learned a bit about each other, exchanged numbers, made later plans to study. I went over to her house last night and we worked on a project, but her roommates and their bfs were all at the apartment so we didn't have much privacy. We ended up going out to eat since she was hungry, had my arm around her as we walked to the car. I forgot to mention the whole time we were doing the project her hand was on my leg or our legs were touching or she was leaning into me. Ended up eating, she was tired since she just got back from Vegas a couple hours prior. I mess up here and don't isolate properly to kiss her, we just get in the car and I drop her off (couldn't park since all the spots were taken). She leans over and hugs me goodbye, I kiss her cheek kinda and awkwardly hug back. We made plans again to go to a hookah lounge this week, hopefully I man up and kiss her there since well have a bit more privacy.

Things I took from that date:

  • I had her interested and laughing the whole time, gotta keep that up.
  • Escalate further.
  • More kino, somehow kclose before dropping her off later.

Onto the next part.. So if you see my past comments, you'll see a situation where I was going to a class trip to the beach and I wanted to isolate and talk to this beautiful girl. I've only talked to her once a couple of weeks ago, very briefly. Long story short, I bitched out, we made eye contact but I got intimated by her bestie being there. So today, I see her outside of class but she's not really within talking distance. I'm talking to one dude in her group and she is talking to another girl in her group. We make eye contact at least three times, but I'm dumb and insist on waiting until after class and praying we finish labs at the same time. I finished before her but packed up very slowly etc then stopped at the fountain to get a drink of water. I see her walk out right behind me but again, I pussy out and don't say a word to her despite her being alone for once. Next week we have an optional field trip, I'm nkt sure if she will be going, and the following week is break. So my current situation is that I've bitched out twice now and I'm running out of time. Does anyone have any advice for handling this situation now? I'm sure it's in my head, but I feel like it's getting worse and worse trying to talk to her haha.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, hopefully by the next one I'll have manned up a bit. I'm still pretty new to this :P