Hi all,

I posted one instance of this in another thread, but it seems to be an ongoing problem with all of my interactions so I figured I'd ask for some help.

Essentially, I can almost always number close (lately it's been Tinder success, but I'm getting more comfortable approaching in person as well). However, once I get the number, things start to go downhill. I'm not sure if I'm texting them too much, replying too quickly, whatever. It seems that we have a great fun interaction but as soon as I ask them out "officially" (I tease about it sometimes, but once I set a day and time and everything) it just crumbles. They either don't reply, or they reply with an ambiguous answer that isn't yes or no. I usually follow up by asking if it's a yes or a no, or say something jokingly if they don't reply, but I feel this is where I really mess up and come off as needy.

If you guys could give me any pointers, I'd really appreciate it. I've messed things up with about five gorgeous girls in the span of a week, so it looks like I need some help haha. Thank you so much.