Hey Seddit, I'm a 20 year old University student who just got out of his first relationship for the second time. I was in a 2 year long relationship with a girl, broke up with her over the summer, got back with her, and broke up with her again. The book No More Mr. Nice Guy made me realize a lot about myself, and I decided that we weren't right for each other, and ended it. I really enjoyed the book and I learned a lot about all of the toxic behavior I was injecting into myself, and I now want to improve as a man and become a better person, and meet some awesome women along the way.

Now, I was poking around the forums, and I came across this post. Do these steps look good? A lot of them seem to clash with the seduction mindset, but I'm still healing from the break up (it was literally earlier this evening), and I want to break free from my beta/nice guy tendencies.

Also, I was interested in picking up the book Models. I heard it was a great book from beginners, but do you think it's too soon for someone like me? I planned on picking up "The Game" sometime too. I know it's not an endless vault of pick up knowledge, and I should treat it as a memoir, but would it be a good read?

Any other steps or advice would be great. I'm in a crossroads for my new life, and I'd love to get some help from anyone willing to offer it from someone who was in a similar situation, or just knows a thing or two about seduction.