So when In conversation with girls I like to keep the conversation content to about themselves, I think that's a pretty obvious rule in the seduction realm. Everyone loves talking about themselves. It keeps them talking and makes it easy for me to sit there and listen. But what I've noticed is two things

It helps keep me a man of mystery

It also helps me determine a bit about their personality. If they don't try to turn the conversation around or navigate around my attempts to avoid talking about me I can tell that they are not self obsessed. Which Is a trait i desire.