How do you escalate in social circle situations?

2014-01-08T16:24:38+00:00

I did this recently in a smaller group (4 people). I used only kino on the girl I liked and I ended up making out with her. The 4 of us went out, 2 of the people were already a couple leaving just me and the girl I liked to follow. These were friends from college (they still go to college) and there are on winter break so we all hung out one sunday. Throughout the day I was touching the girl's shoulder/arm to lead her to places/for conversational purposes. Towards the end of the night, I held her hand for bit. When the couple dropped us off in a parking lot so the two of us could pick up our cars and go home, we made out in the parking lot. But right before that as we were pulling into the lot, the girl and I were in the back seat of the couple's car. I gently put my hand on hers as it was flat on the seat. I gave a slight caress with my thumb and she returned in kind, <--this was the signal that "we're on". So we all get out of the car in the lot, we say good byes to our friends, but the girl gives me a hug goodbye before I can kiss her. So while hugging her, I speak softly into her ear and tell her to wait a minute, and she complies. We hug our friends, they drive away, I walk straight towards (only a few steps away) my girl, saying nothing, and just went for the kiss.

sharkacolypse · 2014-01-08T16:51:03+00:00

There's a term: escalate and isolate. Make some excuse to get away from the group. At a party, this could be "hey let's grab another drink" or even "come with me while I grab another drink". I even once said at a party, "Hey let's go to the kitchen" where the kitchen was four steps away and completely open.

thewordofmouse · 2014-01-08T18:34:09+00:00

Put your hands on her shoulders, grab her, steer her, and remove her from the group.

Intro to kino
IDGAF
All alone
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kingcal · 2014-01-09T03:32:03+00:00

If you're uncomfortable escalating in front of her friends, move away from her friends. Simple.

Title	How do you escalate in social circle situations?
Author	mhrdth
Upvotes	15
Comments	9
Date	January 8, 2014 3:18 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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