Alright so I've been on a few dates recently, one of them being a girl I posted asking for advice about. I've noticed that after having a great first date with a girl, even after K-Closing, I'll get friend zoned soon afterwards.

The past few have gone something like this; We'll meet, I'll get her number, text her for a day or two generally, dodging a few shit tests, excessive playful teasing and flirting, then suggest we see a movie and they're usually down. We'll meet at the movie, I'll use lots of kino before hand to make sure she knows why I'm here, guide her places with my hand on the small of her back, etc. When we sit down I'll usually let her have the armrest first, then push her arm off with mine playfully and expelling playfully that I'm kind of an armrest hog (great segway into holding hands), then make some sort of playfully astonishing discovery that the armrest next to me swivels up and down, then do the same to the one between us and they scoot in and I put my arm around them. Then later make some excuse to say something and when they look up at me I look in their eyes, aaaannnnnd K-close. Last time the girl actually kissed me and jumped straight into it. Then after the movie I'll walk her to her car, kiss her good night, and go on my way. Then I text them telling them I had a great time and hope we can do it again soon and they always reciprocate. However, when I text them suggesting we do it again soon (be it the next day or day after), they usually say yeah, but that they just want to be friends, to which I'll usually kinda blow off and say "ahhh that would be such a shame!" or something.

Where am I screwing up? Am I sending some sort of vibe somewhere? Suggesting we do it again too soon? Should I not be telling them I had a great time? Is it just shit test I'm missing out on? Whats going on here that I'm not catching?