I'll go out on a limb here, but most of the guys in this forum are the kid of people who are always on time, especially on time for a first date.

I am the same way, I am always on time, which actually means that I am always early, it's part of my character.

So, a couple of weeks ago I met a new girl at a party, cute, very cute; a solid 8, asian, fit, a good mind + body combo.

So, we've been emailing back and forth for a couple of weeks, she's busy, I am busy, finally we settle on meeting on Sunday for coffee. I always meet for coffee in lieu of a traditional "first date". By know I know her schedule and where she lives, so I propose the place and time: a local independent coffee shop near me, 3:00 PM. She agrees to it and then she says "I hope that you're not anal retentive about being on time" when I ask her why she said so she adds "Because I am always late..." and repeats "I hope that you're not anal retentive about being on time".

I know enough about psychology that that word choice anal retentive has to do with some of her past experiences, and possibly this is one of those shit tests that /r/seduction talks about.

So I reply, "Not at all, I hope you're not one either, LMAO" and then I change the time from 3:00 PM to 2:00 PM.

Sunday I had lunch with a girl I am dating, my place, we had brunch, then sex. at 2:10 I get a text "Running Late", which is fine, I am in bed naked with a pretty blonde, at 2:20 I text back "No problem, keep me posted". At 2:35 I get another text "Almost there". Then again at 2:45 "Where are you?" to which after a few minutes I reply "Be right there". At this point we were done, both having had our after sex shower, so I say goodbye to my friend and go meet my new friend.

My new friend is not too happy "You made me wait!" she welcomes me.

"I tol you that I was not anal retentive about being on time, and you told me you were the same" She's a bitch! She goes on and on how she waited for me, and then I told her: you were here at 2:45 when we said 2:00, you only waited 15 minutes, if I had been here at 2:00 I would have been waiting for 45 minutes.. but I didn't 15 minutes late is not that bad, is it?

So then she ask me where I was "waiting" to which I replied: I was on a date.

Like a little girl first she's pissed, then she's curious she does more shit tests telling me that she doesn't believe me and stuff, and I amplify and make fun: I'm always on a date before a first date, it's just my rule and stuff like that.

Well, she responds to my arrogance, and lo and behold after coffee we go to my place for a drink, where after about a couple of hours we proceed to have sex in the same unmade bed where I was a few hours earlier with someone else, she found it a turn on.

This is the first time I try this, in the past I tell them in advance that I am willing to wait 10 minutes max, and then I leave, and I have left because they were 10+ minutes late, at times we've remedied at times we haven't, but I think I like this new system, trying to figure out how late she's going to be, then doubling up and be "that" late myself.