Looking for feedback on being very direct with women (description inside)

Atti1a · 2014-02-18T23:01:56+00:00

Ive done a few of these, and its pretty hit or miss. But generally women appreciate a mans boldness, so its not necessarily a bad move. No guarantees but you might as well go for it, you have nothing to lose.

I might switch up the wording a bit though and say something a little less coarse.

-"Hey Ive seen you around here a few times and youre a good dancer, would you wanna go get a drink after this?"

Im a fan of such approaches, they are spontaneous and fun and many times women feel really happy that a cute guy askes them out. i say, go for it.

If you get shot down, act like nothing happened. The next time you see her at dace class, dance with her again. Smile and have a good time. In no way show her that you were disappointed by her rejection. She may change her mind later where as if you make it clear that you were hurt, this burns all bridges for future opportunities.

Go for it bra, youve got nothing to lose and everything to gain

readonlyuser · 2014-02-19T03:10:37+00:00

Give more context in the opener about why you want to be talking to her. Also, stretch it out so she can process it (I recommend giving your reasoning for coming over to talk to her). Don't jump straight to the time bridge, unless you have a plausible reason (like you have to leave and don't have enough time for a conversation).

Girls almost universally appreciate it if you do it correctly (i.e. not needy and reaction-seeking and not jumping out from behind a bush or something). Most of the time, you'll at least create a window to have a conversation or she'll reject you, saving you a bunch of time.

BTW I assume you're talking about some type of day game scenario or something.

My recommendation, since you are in the same class, is to just start a conversation with her rather than busting through the window with both guns blazing and then her facing the awkward prospect of seeing you again regularly. You have all the context you need to just walk over and say, "Hi, I haven't met you yet, I'm Falcario."

throwaway32_ · 2014-02-19T05:10:05+00:00

Great idea, but here's some advice (I'm purely direct game).

Instead of just popping the question, first do some small talk.

"Hey how's your day going?" blah blah blah "Yeah, well I really liked (whatever you liked from your last dance class) blah blah blah You know, you're really cute, what are you doing after this?

BAM! You're in!

ItsNotAScam · 2014-02-18T22:48:44+00:00

Wouldn't work, comes off as creepy and manipulative.

Title	Looking for feedback on being very direct with women (description inside)
Author	Falcario
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	February 18, 2014 10:32 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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