Hey guys,

So this is a reddit that I used to love and used to build myself to the person I always wanted to be. I have had great success in the past and have done well for a while, that is until this Christmas. There was some traumatic experiences that were realized in my past and since that time, my success has seen a substantial drop. I've also gotten sloppy by getting too drunk, but the major problem is that I seem to have lost a LOT of confidence/charisma/whatever the hell you wanna call it. With such a substantial drop, it's pretty clear to me as to what has caused it.

My question to you is: how do you get back on the horse? like when you feel a true drop of confidence, like taking a bat to the stomach, what can I do to get myself back up to where I know I should be?