How many approaches did it take for AA to really not be a problem for you anymore?

ThePUA_Baddie · 2014-03-06T23:02:27+00:00

AA never goes away. Every new day that you go out to approach, you'll always have that AA for the first approach that you do.

throwaway691691 · 2014-03-07T03:12:15+00:00

AA is always on your mind in the form of excuses, the problem is that most become hypnotized by these excuses and obey them. The trick is becoming conscious that the excuses will always be there and ignoring them.

But if you let yourself dwell on the excuses you will start to become anxious again. So its not about how many approaches, its more about how long it took you to realize this fact. For me it was 2 years.

seddittips · 2014-03-07T04:50:13+00:00

It does seem to fade but it doesn't. It only feels like it's fading because you know how to introduce yourself from numerous approaches but it's still there.

What helps me is approach one person, the second person will always be easier. Every time I get one out of the way first the second one is always tremendously easier. It works for me and I'm sure a few others also, don't know why but it does. Also doing it without thinking works wonders, don't let yourself think about what to say and just go.

RandianHero · 2014-03-07T05:44:14+00:00

One. Once I learned that it wasn't nearly as bad as it was in my head, I stopped being anxious about it. Just like anything in life, really.

TheHeadHunterr · 2014-03-07T06:35:51+00:00

Ross Jefferies said it best: No matter what happens The WORST that can happen is that nothing will happen

Talk to everybody. When being a chatty/friendly is who you are, you won't really have to deal with AA.

HappyJerk · 2014-03-06T22:52:02+00:00

AA will always be a problem. Anybody that's acts like they've "conquered" aa is full of shit.

What reduces AA is successful approaches. Once you bag some 8s you feel less akward approaching 6s

Title	How many approaches did it take for AA to really not be a problem for you anymore?
Author	zach84
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Date	March 6, 2014 9:45 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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