a good way to tell her friends that shes coming with you for the night?

DamienDieckeSOA · 2014-03-19T05:40:46+00:00

There are quite a few great strategies, but there's one really simply way around problems like this.

Instead of asking her home from the bar/club. Ask her outside to grab a bite to eat. That's an easy way for her to say goodbye to friends without feeling like she's being a hussy, she's just going to get some food.

Then after you have had a bite to eat, take her home. There's no need for her to say goodbye to friends again, and if she really wants to she can lie to them and tell them she's going home alone.

Zack_Fair_ · 2014-03-19T14:41:02+00:00

"She's coming over to meet my roommate Jerry"

who is a decorated potted orchid with sunglasses and a goofy hat

joshsway · 2014-03-19T12:18:11+00:00

Well, you most definitely do not say "she's coming with me for the night"! I wrote an article about how to isolate a girl:

https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/7-ways-to-get-her-alone-with-you

Also, if the friends are being cockblocks:

https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/dealing-with-a-cockblock

Asking for "permission" is the most common approach most PUA's recommend. However, you ask for permission to "borrow her for a minute" and then you work from there. You do not ask for permission to "take her home with you tonight"!!

Hope that helps.

AfroSamuraii · 2014-03-19T19:45:26+00:00

I don't know where I remember reading this, I think on /r/seduction somewhere. However, to alleviate the tensions, give her friends your phone number also so they can contact you directly if need be.

Apex_of_Attraction · 2014-03-19T20:15:37+00:00

Hey Aakash294,

First off, she is not bound to see her friends before she leaves. To pull her without this annoying part start by leading her to different locations around the club. With so many different environments she will begin to realize that you are the only constant in the environment and will look to you to provide a sense of direction.

From there it will be normal to lead her out the front door (in the second half of the night). Say you want fresh air or something. Then, without making it explicit lead her away from the club. Without asking if she wants to come home with you, walk over to a taxi or stop one, and open the door for her to get in. If she doesn't want to get in, that's fine. Just spend more time with her, and number close if you really can't pull that night. But after a while, you should develop a feel for when to lead from the club.

Almost every time I pull they leave without saying goodbye to their friends first. It's easier for them to apologize later than it is for them to "ask for permission". It's also much easier for her to rationalize to her friends how it "just happened" since she never actually explicitly agreed to anything.

Darragh, Apex of Attraction http://apexofattraction.weebly.com

Title	a good way to tell her friends that shes coming with you for the night?
Author	Aakash294
Upvotes	10
Comments	6
Date	March 19, 2014 1:51 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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