Hey Seddit, hope you are all fine and well!

I'm a slowly learning AFC and have been on just a few dates over the past month or so. I have don't usually have too much trouble building initial attraction with girls, and when we go on a date conversation flows freely and I'm starting to feel more comfortable and relaxed.

The problem is that after sometime during the date (maybe 30minutes) I start to realise that we are just talking like friends and I'm no longer building attraction. Even when progressing kino the whole time, hand on leg/back type thing, it still seems like we're just getting to know each other as friends.

What do you do to continue to really build attraction throughout the date - especially in a sexual frame?

Does anyone have specific examples of what to do during a daytime date at the park, or an evening dinner? Times like these I feel it's not appropriate to get too physical - but to ask the question again - how do you maintain and build attraction as lovers and not friends?