Do your friends ever bust your balls about talking to girls all the time?

social_scrying · 2014-03-30T19:11:45+00:00

If I saw someone who had the balls to approach a girl I didnt, I would be jealous too. You will always get shit for it in the beginning. After doing it enough, they will stop bugging you about it.

Hold your frame in the center of attention and you will be fine.

HyperionRevived · 2014-03-30T20:48:03+00:00

I have the same problem. My one friend pretty much tells me how he thinks girls should approach us, and how I'm trying too hard when I go out.

My question to him is if I see this beautiful girl across the bar and I want to have the best chance of taking her home, should I just sit here and hope she will come talk to me...or be the man and make the fucking move by going up to her and talking to her?

And when I do approach girls, I'm the only one ever talking to them (even when I try to wing them). They just disappear, and when I'm engaged with the girl(s), they try to pry me off of them and go to another bar. Serious cock blocks and It's starting to piss me off guys. I think I need to take other dudes out.

mathrix · 2014-03-30T19:17:52+00:00

As most of my friends are females. Yes. Constantly. But they dig it lol

didled · 2014-03-30T20:43:29+00:00

I never really understood this. Im puttin in work where yall are scared and im the clown? It shouldn't matter your doin you while there being lame.

manbeef · 2014-03-30T20:50:10+00:00

Yep, they're just jelly because you have the balls to do something that they don't.

2014-03-30T22:25:00+00:00

Haters gonna hate. It's easy for spectators to feel powerful and give criticism when they look from a distance.

Quoting a rap song, "I'm the action on the court, you the gum stuck to the bleachers".

asiank1ng · 2014-03-31T02:43:20+00:00

I remember I was at this club with at least 15-20 friends. One of them called me out on being a "tiger" wanting to pounce and play, pretty much jabbing me for being on the prowl and approaching women constantly, in front of all my buddies. I thought nothing of it, because I knew for a fact that these guys would never have the balls to approach. I got laid that night, they didnt. Jokes on them lol.

Title	Do your friends ever bust your balls about talking to girls all the time?
Author	alex0919
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	March 30, 2014 6:37 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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