I was thinking about this and all my friends have been telling me I should let this go - but I know that you guys have some out of usual thinking so let me know what you think.

There is a girl that I knew back in high school. I always liked her but we were just friends. She would be active sexually but I was not as much. She dated a bunch of guys in high school whom I didn't like - and one of my friends.

Anyway cue to uni and I happened to run into her - she was working as a waitress.

Anyway we ended up coming back to my place - and told me she needed a place to stay.

So I thought it would be my chance to maybe get with her eventually. Unfortunately after she moved we remained friends and she is now dating some guy who comes over now and then.

She also lost her job and asked me for a loan - which I had to borrow against my credit cards. She has not paid it off and the credit card debt percentage is quite high. So now I am working to pay off the credit cards - I am very angry because this guy is coming over all the time and I don't like his energy.

I feel this is unfair but she tells me that we've always been close.

I am tired of the whole situation - but I know I can help her and eventually get with her.

Please teach me teh ways of the Red Pill - I want to stop this shit and become an alpha male.