I am [F] 20's new to PUA and have a question for men: Why no men approaches me and my gfs? My pic is included.

nosesandsight · 2014-04-11T12:02:43+00:00

Walking up to more than 2 girls (IMO) is walking into a pitcher's count. Unless you are Brad Pitt or have an apex wingman, you're fighting an uphill battle, and things will get quickly become dickered.

Guys probably don't want to walk up and talk to you for the same reason they don't want to walk up and talk to any hot girls.

ericishere · 2014-04-11T19:06:34+00:00

Stop with this attention whoring shit on reddit

HappyJerk · 2014-04-11T14:21:35+00:00

People usually approach people they think they have a chance with. If guys aren't approaching you, it's probably because they are intimidated by you, or don't think they are good enough for you, etc... It may because of your body language (you may have a mean-looking face, or you may not look like you are having fun), or it may be because of a million other things. You might be hanging out at the wrong places.

Ask yourself this: these people who you want to approach you, are these people you would continue a relationship with? If not, then they can probably tell, which is why they won't approach.

2014-04-11T11:37:52+00:00

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2014-04-11T11:55:00+00:00

Well a group of girls becomes harder to approach for most guys. When you see a guy you like initiate eye contact so he knows that YOU know he exists and smile to show openness

readonlyuser · 2014-04-11T16:19:21+00:00

Is it just you and your girlfriend? Are you standing somewhere where guys could easily walk up to you? Are you smiling? Friendly?

Qix213 · 2014-04-11T19:02:36+00:00

Being a bit new here, I've realized just how bad most guys are at reading signals (by how much I've changed). You might have to be a bit more open at showering your interest from across the room.

And think of this... pre-pua, how did you feel about making the approach on a guy? All those insecurities you feel/felt also apply to men. They are just as apprehensive, but because they are expected to make the approach SOME will actually do it (many men go to the bar/club and never approach) at all.

MarkTheWanderer · 2014-04-11T21:47:13+00:00

Why don't you just approach them? I had a few girls come up to me that I wasn't interested in before and suddenly got a thing going for them. Just give them some bait, the girl I'm currently talking to stared me down across the room and just eye fucked me, I took the signal and grabbed her number.

anon10500 · 2014-04-11T16:16:22+00:00

try better clothes..

2014-04-11T15:24:38+00:00

And for the life of me i don't know why am i being down voted :)

Title	I am [F] 20's new to PUA and have a question for men: Why no men approaches me and my gfs? My pic is included.
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Date	April 11, 2014 11:26 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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