Some bodylanguage tips. Useful for seeing if a girl's interested so you know if it's worth making a move. Nobody likes to shoot in the dark.

internetvillain · 2014-04-14T09:14:27+00:00

You can see how much a girl is into you by looking at how her feet are positioned. If they are behind your ears she really likes you.

trigzo · 2014-04-14T03:26:37+00:00

Should it matter whether the person is into you or not? I think the idea behind the seduction ideology is to have enough self reassurance for one to talk to anyone, attract anyone and have a relationship with anyone that returns that feeling.

hamandjam · 2014-04-14T04:51:12+00:00

So if she makes a point of showing me her breasts that's a good sign? Never would have guessed that one.

marvinwaitforit · 2014-04-13T22:55:16+00:00

Just watch the girls eyes. That's the #1 I notice. So many guys don't maintain eye contact that girls don't think well notice where their looking.

Let me give a couple examples: One day I went to Home Depot. Came in and gave the cashier a smile which she returned. On the way out, I made sure to exit through her lane even though I wasn't buying anyone. This time I watched her eyes the whole time. We made eye contact, then she immediately looked at my shoes, and then my crotch area. And back up.

Another time I went to a bar. Just walked around making serious eye contact, not flirting. Made eye contact with this one girl and added a bit of mystery to my gaze. Girl couldn't stop staring. Once she passed me, she turned around, grabbed my arm and said "you look very familiar" - haha I've never that girl before in my life. But I'm willing to bet that she was trying to start a conversation.

Xkirbyx · 2014-04-14T02:56:07+00:00

I try my hardest to maintain strong eye contact with everyone I talk to but it's hard to focus on the pupil dilation. Any tips?

floor-pi · 2014-04-14T07:45:03+00:00

I think that body language awareness should be something you pay attention to in the beginning, but quickly let it become subconscious again. Mainly because, for your own body, it is subconscious, so it's really obvious when you're making a conscious effort to change it; i've seen this happen a lot...guys who are trying to 'take up space' or whatever else looking really stiff and unnatural, and losing 'presence'. Secondly because a lot of the things to watch for in other people are bullshit anyway. Especially when other people are also aware of body language, and you don't know their motivations behind their actions (e.g. you might be talking to someone who has open body language to someone other than you in a group, but they're consciously doing this to include them in the conversation rather than subconsciously signalling attraction).

If you're doing all of the other stuff right, body language will follow naturally. I think.

hotpants69 · 2014-04-14T12:11:42+00:00

Thank you for the laughs guy. If I had cash gold for random redditor comedian of the day.

hotpants69 · 2014-04-14T12:10:08+00:00

Its a mixed signal for sure. Just on Friday lady friend had me take her home after drinks at the bar stripped naked. Talks up sex ... And began throwing up violently. Said she had fun. Sends me on my way tells me to call her. Two days later, she won't answer calls or respond to texts . definitely saw boob maybe I gotta work on my moves but sometimes that can make me feel so insecure like I believe everything has a motive; unknown.

Title	Some bodylanguage tips. Useful for seeing if a girl's interested so you know if it's worth making a move. Nobody likes to shoot in the dark.
Author	motivate101
Upvotes	191
Comments	23
Date	April 13, 2014 8:40 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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