How many of you fat guys out there actually game?

sweet_d89 · 2014-04-14T01:50:30+00:00

260lbs and 25 here. (Former 330 lb). the game Is the same, confidence and an entertaining convo will pull you numbers.. the problem I've found is that girls are timid with being closed by a bigger guy because of a semi accurate stigma that we become attached easily, and being that most big guys grow up being the nice guy and pick up alpha traits later, we can give some mixed signals between casual flirting and romantic intent.. it's frustrated me enough to be more motivated on working on being fit just to avoid the assumptions, and honestly the deep seeded insecurities attached to being overweight.

Diece · 2014-04-14T02:12:39+00:00

I honestly think most big guys don't need to game because they naturally have women attracted to them. They don't give a fuck and are used to people making fun of them. An ultra extreme example of this is Biggie, he was ugly as fuck but you still couldn't hate him because he just didn't care and was super charismatic I know being famous had lots to do with it but even before he was famous he was known to pick up women out of his league.

HULKx · 2014-04-14T00:37:23+00:00

I do okay... Just don't get discouraged.

Frosticle · 2014-04-14T01:45:57+00:00

I'm a big dude but I've got a big frame and I'm quite muscular and I do pretty well. I also work in a bar which helps. I browse /r/seddit every now and then but I find myself disagreeing with almost everything they say on here.

Gallows9 · 2014-04-14T03:59:15+00:00

My friend has a pretty sizable beer gut and has great game.

lovdisc · 2014-04-26T09:57:04+00:00

One of the coaches in my local lair is a heavy one, without (or with minimum) muscle.

One day we had dinner together along with other healthy-weighed coaches, and competed to get a kiss from the waitress -- the fat dude won.

thefreeze1 · 2014-04-14T04:16:53+00:00

Here's what I have learned. I weigh almost 400, and have never had problems. I've been an mPUA for 5 years. Here's the secret:

If you don't make it an issue, neither will they. Dating sites are one thing, in person a human is a human. Just like stripper game and stuff man, we are all biological humans.

Title	How many of you fat guys out there actually game?
Author	DlmaoC
Upvotes	5
Comments	15
Date	April 14, 2014 12:14 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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