How was your first approach like?

RandianHero · 2014-04-26T01:15:17+00:00

I was thirteen. I basically remembered what my father told me: "Remember how you felt when you rode your bike for the first time? How scared you were before you actually did it? Remember how it wasn't so bad once you did? Everything in life is that way, son. If you're ever scared or nervous, just remember: once you do it, it's not so bad."

So I did. I approached her, nervous as fuck, but spoke in a confident tone of voice because I knew acting nervous wasn't going to work. I asked her out, she enthusiastically gave me her number, and thus began the rest of my life.

Gallows9 · 2014-04-26T09:55:52+00:00

First time EVER? I was in 7th grade. We were going to some rollerblading place for our class trip. This girl I liked named Marley sat next to me. We talked the entire way there (this was a HUGE first for the fat 13 year old goth boy that I was) and when we were about to get off I asked if she wanted to go on a date with me. She literally ran away laughing. Years of misplaced loathing and misogyny later I realized I was too much of a coward to even speak to girls. I would break out in hives and start itching if I had to talk to a girl.

And now at 23 I have a veritable harem of naïve college girls that think they're special. Just keep going, man. Go get shot down 1000 times. You'll be all the better for it.

CaptBarbosaJ0K3R · 2014-04-26T01:09:39+00:00

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SojuBelly · 2014-04-26T04:03:46+00:00

Very, very awkward. I literally wandered around for an hour, trying to approach. But as expected, I was stopped by some major AA during that whole time. After some sacking up, I finally approached a girl. I wasn't even attracted to her but still I stammered and was sweaty. Needless to say, I didn't close.

I now literally look back and laugh. It gets pretty hilarious in hindsight.

thatburneydude · 2014-04-26T18:30:07+00:00

Editing this: it sounds like im drunk

April 19th 2014

girl that sits to the right of me in class. (not really approach but w/e) I was just trying to keep everything smooth and non threatening. We talked for a very short time. I didn't leave with a number. (i plan on getting it next class period)

April 25th 2014

First ever approach that i walked up to. Group of 3 girls, they were dancing by the stairs, I danced through the middle doing a spinny dance thingy to break them all up. I stood in the middle and said "yall are crazy", immediately looked to the right and asked the girl "Are you as interesting as you look?" and she said yeah and that she was a belly dancer. I said no way, show me something. I stood in the middle and they did some weird belly dancer shit and bent backwards exposing their stomachs. I slapped a girls abbs and said "It was fun meeting yall, im gonna go" (because i literally had no clue how to transition from that to anything meaningful) chick i initially talked to said "it was nice meeting you", as i left.

on second thought - I should have pulled the girl to the side and tried to escalate/pull something out of my ass.

anxiety: I was scared shitless both times but told myself the worst that can happen is that they don't fuck me. (and their already doing that)

After that: felt pretty good.

background: "studying" RSD/The Game for 3 years (yes i was all talk and no action) studying seddit for a couple days

ThePUA_Baddie · 2014-04-26T00:52:53+00:00

Ahhh, my first approach, the start of my PUA career I remember it like it was yesterday. I've been reading seddit for a while and have watched a bunch of simple pickup and thought, DAYUMM imagine if I went up to some girls and did this stuff!! So I went to the mall, went to buy some froyo, stood in line, next to me was this gorgeous chick, I was sweating and my whole body was warm, especially my face. But I managed to just turn around and open her by telling her I thought she was gorgeous. I can't remember what she said after but yeah she left shortly after, and then I was like omg I did it

samuraii889 · 2014-05-03T15:17:48+00:00

Im almost 20 and havent made a single approach

Title	How was your first approach like?
Author	CaptBarbosaJ0K3R
Upvotes	3
Comments	17
Date	April 25, 2014 11:25 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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