Tips for making your intentions explicit?

recyclablebantha · 2014-05-09T11:41:39+00:00

So guys lately I've been analyzing myself and realized I have an extreme difficulty making my intentions clear , essentially cock blocking myself. Any tips?

I'm a little shocked that no one has brought up the one thing you absolutely HAVE to do, regardless of anything else: Kino. If you're not getting in her space in various ways and SHOWING her your intentions, it matters little how well you talk. You're definitely not going to verbally negotiate your way into her pants (or into anything more, if you want that later), if you're unable to pull the trigger.

Really, it's unnecessary to verbalize your "intentions" beyond wanting to spend time with her, etc. IF she's down, kino will pave the way faster than trying to have some talk with her.

[For example: it's possible to physically escalate through touch alone, to the point where you get a non-verbal agreement for an f-close, while the conversation is completely normal and platonic.]

ongakudaisuki · 2014-05-09T14:09:27+00:00

"I think you're really fucking cute."

2014-05-09T18:07:12+00:00

I have the opposite where I make my intentions too clear. Let's merge and find a middle-ground.

joshsway · 2014-05-09T18:45:18+00:00

Need more details. At what stage of the game are we talking about? When you first approach her? When you have her in your bedroom?

EliahtheMessiah · 2014-05-09T08:03:18+00:00

The best thing you could do is over calibration. For a week you say within the first two minutes to every girl you meet (at least 5 each day) that I thought you were hot and wanted to fuck you. Then continue with normal conversation.

When you're comfertable with over-doing it, you can down-calibrate to the socially accepteble limit.

It's always easier to calibrate down than up. So over do it, then ajust down.

SmellyJelly22 · 2014-05-09T18:14:30+00:00

I look deep into your eyes and say "I had a lot of fun tonight. I think I want to have your baby." Gets the point across and its funny/weird enough to take the pressure off of her.

simplisticallysimple · 2014-05-10T03:21:29+00:00

Just say, "I'd love to fuck you." If she reacts favourably, you know you have a sure one in the bag. If not, just play it off as a joke.

What_Is_X · 2014-05-09T07:41:15+00:00

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Title	Tips for making your intentions explicit?
Author	iNtEgbRahHh
Upvotes	11
Comments	21
Date	May 9, 2014 7:05 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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