Hey!

Short Background : Plate that I have spend time with 6 months > goes travelling with a friend for 2,5 months > we keep contact becouse I want to try her out more > she start to forget about me and disrespet me 1,5 mounths in

I started with calling her out for not respect the effort I put in (I have called her some times and she pickes up randomly) and she have me some bitchy short answear like "I was outside" and some more exemples for not put in any effort...

So I have nothing else to do that "soft next" her and see if I can "re-frame" her behaviour, I have decided to ghost her for 7 days, and then I will start convo like nothing happend like "So how are you feeling for getting home soon?" She will be back from the trip soon.

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Now I have 2 questions

  1. Im 90% sure that she will write something in her soft-next-period, and I will just ignore that and ask my question out of the blue later after the 7 days period. But what to do If she havent write anything back during that time and I still want to give it a try cus I "like" the girl? Lets say the girl is ashamed and hope that I will contact her again in the future for exemple

Do I contact and "give it a try" either way after the 7 day soft-next-period ends?

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  1. Before I next her, I didnt argu alot I just send her 1 text and was like "It feels like someone rather behave like a nasty bitch then spend time doing bla bla bla, im disappointed and angry.... bla bla"

Is that totally unnecessarily? Like its never to my favor to call a women a bitch or just make up the fact that she is a bitch?

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